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What is the nicest compliment paid to you (Original Post) malaise Tuesday OP
Can't remember exactly who it was, but when I was working for the newspaper Walleye Tuesday #1
You're my favorite substitute teacher! kimbutgar Tuesday #2
kimbutgar....... Upthevibe Tuesday #15
Recently? "I knew when I first saw you and you started to speak that you weren't a Trump supporter" hlthe2b Tuesday #3
Nice! SheltieLover Tuesday #5
A Great Compliment malaise Tuesday #6
I enjoyed your book so much... The Blue Flower Tuesday #4
Wow! malaise Tuesday #10
A former student dedicated a book to me. lapucelle Tuesday #7
lapucelle..... Upthevibe Tuesday #16
It was unexpected and absolutely wonderful. lapucelle Tuesday #21
"At least True Dough Tuesday #8
I love this forum! Is there anything more powerful than a compliment. legallyblondeNYC Tuesday #9
Five little girls NJCher Tuesday #11
NJCher Upthevibe Tuesday #17
"He was very thorough" dickthegrouch Tuesday #12
My husband of nearly 45 years dlilafae Tuesday #13
Young guy I worked with said "You always look like you're up to something." 2MuchNoise Tuesday #14
This is silly, but it still makes me smile Grim Chieftain Tuesday #18
So sweet malaise Tuesday #19
I was complimented, in a backhanded sort of way LogDog75 Tuesday #20
A lady I worked with for years... Tikki Tuesday #22
I had a professor once say oberle Wednesday #32
From a married guy when I was a young secretary... some_of_us_are_sane Tuesday #23
Lovely compliment malaise Wednesday #24
A clerk at the grocery store Marthe48 Wednesday #25
Wonderful malaise Wednesday #28
When my son was young, I was a Scout Leader PJMcK Wednesday #26
How about you, malaise? PJMcK Wednesday #27
A former student called me malaise Wednesday #29
That's a wonderful story! PJMcK Wednesday #34
In 2021 and 2022 I had purple hair - JustKay Wednesday #30
Too cute malaise Wednesday #31
"You're pretty!" sprinkleeninow Wednesday #33
The kid (maybe mid-20s) who was running sound at a club I played at... LudwigPastorius Thursday #35
Bwaaaaaaaaaaah! malaise Thursday #39
This message was self-deleted by its author Skittles Thursday #36
This message was self-deleted by its author Skittles Thursday #37
My Greek M-I-L once told me bif Thursday #38
That is a serious compliment malaise Thursday #40

Walleye

(45,759 posts)
1. Can't remember exactly who it was, but when I was working for the newspaper
Tue Jun 16, 2026, 10:48 AM
Tuesday

A cute young guy recognized my name and said he had been following my photography for years. I didn’t think anybody even looked long enough to read the photo credit

hlthe2b

(115,119 posts)
3. Recently? "I knew when I first saw you and you started to speak that you weren't a Trump supporter"
Tue Jun 16, 2026, 10:59 AM
Tuesday

LOL

Early on? Not sure.

The Blue Flower

(6,646 posts)
4. I enjoyed your book so much...
Tue Jun 16, 2026, 11:01 AM
Tuesday

...I slowed down reading it at the end to make it last.

The title is "Profit & Loss." Self-published on amazon. A story about homelessness.

legallyblondeNYC

(226 posts)
9. I love this forum! Is there anything more powerful than a compliment.
Tue Jun 16, 2026, 11:31 AM
Tuesday

The more we compliment each other, the more we can change the world.

NJCher

(43,770 posts)
11. Five little girls
Tue Jun 16, 2026, 12:04 PM
Tuesday

Were sort of hanging around outside the school garden gate, and when I left to go to my car, they shyly came up to me and their "spokesperson" said, "We wanted to tell you you're pretty."

dickthegrouch

(4,730 posts)
12. "He was very thorough"
Tue Jun 16, 2026, 12:14 PM
Tuesday

Said to my boss about a consultation job I had performed for that client.

My boss said it was "The worst thing said about me all year"

dlilafae

(512 posts)
13. My husband of nearly 45 years
Tue Jun 16, 2026, 12:26 PM
Tuesday

told my M-i-L that I deserve my new car. To which, she had not ont thing to add. 😊

2MuchNoise

(950 posts)
14. Young guy I worked with said "You always look like you're up to something."
Tue Jun 16, 2026, 12:35 PM
Tuesday

I don't think it was meant as a compliment, but I took it as one.

Grim Chieftain

(2,277 posts)
18. This is silly, but it still makes me smile
Tue Jun 16, 2026, 01:37 PM
Tuesday

Many years ago, when I was starting out as an elementary school teacher, we had to do the dreaded lunchroom duty. There was a strict no talking policy to expedite the time children spent having lunch. One little boy, with big eyes, held up his hand and said "Miss H-------, are you a princess?" I smiled and said "Yes, yes I am". I'll never forget the looks on the children's faces.

LogDog75

(1,445 posts)
20. I was complimented, in a backhanded sort of way
Tue Jun 16, 2026, 02:03 PM
Tuesday

I had been stationed in South Korea for about three months and being the SNCO of the section, I streamlined how we supported everyone. I had to brief a new independent duty medical technician (IDMT) from across base on how we would support him and the procedures/paperwork to request medical supplies. He was accompanied by IDMT he was replacing and after the briefing, the old IDMT said he wished I had arrived about six months ago because the only reason he didn't request an extension to his assignment was because of how hard it was for him to get support from us.

Tikki

(15,276 posts)
22. A lady I worked with for years...
Tue Jun 16, 2026, 06:11 PM
Tuesday

“If I were to come back as a dog.. I would want to be your family dog.”
WOW..that was a compliment for sure.

Tikki

oberle

(469 posts)
32. I had a professor once say
Wed Jun 17, 2026, 06:36 PM
Wednesday

he'd like to come back as one of my cats. I loved that -- I had 9 at the time.

some_of_us_are_sane

(3,836 posts)
23. From a married guy when I was a young secretary...
Tue Jun 16, 2026, 09:50 PM
Tuesday
bopping around in mini-skirts..."Young lady, you're not beautiful...........but you're lovely. And that will last much much longer."

I was kind of miffed until I thought about it.... and fell in love with the sound of that.

Marthe48

(23,717 posts)
25. A clerk at the grocery store
Wed Jun 17, 2026, 05:15 PM
Wednesday

Said she loved when I came through. I was always smiling.

PJMcK

(25,203 posts)
26. When my son was young, I was a Scout Leader
Wed Jun 17, 2026, 05:22 PM
Wednesday

Several of the Scouts said similar things to me along the lines of, “I wish my parents would listen to me like you do.”

They were compliments that broke my heart.

PJMcK

(25,203 posts)
27. How about you, malaise?
Wed Jun 17, 2026, 05:24 PM
Wednesday

I suspect you’ve impacted many lives.

Can you share what inspired your OP?

Thanks, in advance.

malaise

(299,344 posts)
29. A former student called me
Wed Jun 17, 2026, 05:40 PM
Wednesday

Well over a decade ago, I told him I thought he’d be a good person to take over one of my courses.
I told him to come and help himself to any of the text books and journals and come up with his own ideas for the way forward.

He called to tell me that he was just promoted at a university in Canada and wanted to thank me. Then he paid me the compliment - he said you told me to use my imagination and come up with my own course outline and plans. You said this will now be your course not mine.
I laughed and said if we don’t trust the young ones to be able to do what we were allowed to do, then we were really bad lecturers/teachers.

PJMcK

(25,203 posts)
34. That's a wonderful story!
Wed Jun 17, 2026, 08:09 PM
Wednesday

Thanks for telling it.

I had a strong feeling you are an educator.

JustKay

(207 posts)
30. In 2021 and 2022 I had purple hair -
Wed Jun 17, 2026, 06:02 PM
Wednesday

Really, dark purple hair, and a little girl (maybe five or six) walked past me and said, "I love your princess hair!" Made my day and still makes me smile all these years later. I've since gone back to blond, so I don't have princess hair anymore.

LudwigPastorius

(15,220 posts)
35. The kid (maybe mid-20s) who was running sound at a club I played at...
Thu Jun 18, 2026, 12:49 AM
Thursday

said to the band after our set, "That was the greatest thing I've ever heard in my life!". (This was a band that could best be described as Ornette Coleman meets The Allman Brothers.)

We just silently looked at each other after he said that, and the guitarist said to him, "Don't get out much, hunh?".

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