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DFW

(60,210 posts)
Fri Apr 3, 2026, 12:24 PM 14 hrs ago

OK, Mr. Darwin, figure THIS one out

Blonde hair does run in my wife's family, and all our grandchildren are blonde. But curly hair does not. Compared to my wife, even Pam Bondi's hair is curly. So where this little guy's hair comes from is a little puzzling (the rest conforms). He's usually in a good mood, too, and my wife has an abundance of that (lucky me!):



Go figure, Mr. Darwin!

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OK, Mr. Darwin, figure THIS one out (Original Post) DFW 14 hrs ago OP
Very cute... Recessive genes do come together once in a while... hlthe2b 14 hrs ago #1
Pretty darn cute. That smile looks contagious. ☺️ blm 14 hrs ago #2
Ah, so we have another three years until he becomes a scowling axe murderer DFW 13 hrs ago #9
☺️ blm 9 hrs ago #23
A good looking little guy, and a great picture! LuckyCharms 14 hrs ago #3
Our elder daughter is a surprisingly talented photographer DFW 13 hrs ago #13
Fantastic pic! LuckyCharms 13 hrs ago #14
We thought so, too! DFW 12 hrs ago #16
Recessive genes from further back generations. Irish_Dem 14 hrs ago #4
That is our theory too DFW 13 hrs ago #10
Curly hair is the default setting in my family. Irish_Dem 13 hrs ago #12
After my wife's first battle with cancer DFW 12 hrs ago #15
Wow that is amazing. Irish_Dem 12 hrs ago #19
Even cancer couldn't beat that out of her DFW 11 hrs ago #22
Oh what a cutie! MIButterfly 14 hrs ago #5
Cutie Patootie! pandr32 14 hrs ago #6
Oh my, he's a sailor too! How adorable FakeNoose 14 hrs ago #7
Or an old Russian folk song DFW 12 hrs ago #20
Our son doesn't look like us. Zackzzzz 14 hrs ago #8
It's a kaleidoscope of possibilities, I'm tellin' ya EYESORE 9001 13 hrs ago #11
I know I'm going to regret asking this, but..... DFW 12 hrs ago #17
He's an adorable mutant? surrealAmerican 12 hrs ago #18
When he starts climbing walls and adhering to the ceiling DFW 11 hrs ago #21

hlthe2b

(114,004 posts)
1. Very cute... Recessive genes do come together once in a while...
Fri Apr 3, 2026, 12:26 PM
14 hrs ago

And those girls will be after him! LOL

blm

(114,663 posts)
2. Pretty darn cute. That smile looks contagious. ☺️
Fri Apr 3, 2026, 12:28 PM
14 hrs ago

Baby blm had that Shirley Temple look till the age of 6.



DFW

(60,210 posts)
9. Ah, so we have another three years until he becomes a scowling axe murderer
Fri Apr 3, 2026, 01:29 PM
13 hrs ago

Oh, well, I guess we should take the good times as long as they last.............

Baby blm may have lost the Shirley Temple look, but I'd say she has adequately compensated in the meantime!

DFW

(60,210 posts)
13. Our elder daughter is a surprisingly talented photographer
Fri Apr 3, 2026, 01:39 PM
13 hrs ago


It's too bad she has to work for a living. She'd much rather do this.

DFW

(60,210 posts)
16. We thought so, too!
Fri Apr 3, 2026, 02:23 PM
12 hrs ago

I never knew if she had planned to save it, so I made sure she sent it to me before even contemplating erasing it.

DFW

(60,210 posts)
10. That is our theory too
Fri Apr 3, 2026, 01:33 PM
13 hrs ago

As long as he is smart and happy, he could grow an Afro, for all we care!

Irish_Dem

(81,359 posts)
12. Curly hair is the default setting in my family.
Fri Apr 3, 2026, 01:38 PM
13 hrs ago

Some of us keep the curly hair into adulthood, others lose it to some extent.

DFW

(60,210 posts)
15. After my wife's first battle with cancer
Fri Apr 3, 2026, 02:19 PM
12 hrs ago

The chemo made her hair fall out, and what grew back was a very atypical dark brown, very curly near-afro. She didn't really know how to handle it, but ANY hair was better than none at all. It took about 18 months total, but it changed back slowly. At first, the curls straightened out, and then her natural blonde color returned.

Age 50, dark curly hair starting to straighten out:


Age 57, hair completely back to normal:


Both photos taken coincidentally on the same beach, almost exactly 7 years apart.

DFW

(60,210 posts)
22. Even cancer couldn't beat that out of her
Fri Apr 3, 2026, 03:20 PM
11 hrs ago

German stubbornness is at least good for something after all!

MIButterfly

(2,706 posts)
5. Oh what a cutie!
Fri Apr 3, 2026, 12:59 PM
14 hrs ago

My understanding of genetics, which, granted, is extremely limited, is that a trait like curly hair could come from someone who lived generations earlier. For example, maybe a great-great-great-grandparent had curly hair and was the only one on either side of the family who ever did.

Or maybe not. I'm just speculating.

FakeNoose

(41,691 posts)
7. Oh my, he's a sailor too! How adorable
Fri Apr 3, 2026, 01:08 PM
14 hrs ago

It reminds me of a really great German song ...
"Fahr' mich, in die Ferne mein blonder Matrose ..."

DFW

(60,210 posts)
20. Or an old Russian folk song
Fri Apr 3, 2026, 03:10 PM
12 hrs ago

Ты моряк (You [are a] sailor) "Ti maryak" (No mention of hair color)
In Russian and Ukrainian, an unstressed "o" is pronounced like an "a."

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The chorus goes:
по морям, морям, морям, морям, эх (Po maryam, maryam, maryam, maryam, ekh
нин-же здесь а завта там (Neen-zhe zdyess' a zaftra tam)

"On the seas, the seas, the seas, the seas
"Now here, [and/but] tomorrow there"

Russian doesn't have the word "to be" in the present tense. It is implied (or not) by the context. If you were to meet Putin, you might be tempted to tell him "Ты дурак!" (Ti duRAK!) Either "you fool" or "You are a fool!" depending on context.
Also, like Latin, and the other Slavic languages, it has no articles, so "моряк" means "sailor," "a sailor," or "the sailor."
This is why Ukrainians don't get westerners arguing over political correctness between "Ukraine" and "The Ukraine." In their language there is no difference, so unless it's someone with knowledge of a western language, to them there is no distinction. I was once dissed by some American telling me not to say "the Ukraine" because that was the old Russian colonial way of saying it. Since Russian has no "the," that got a laugh out both my Russian friends and my Ukrainian friends.

Zackzzzz

(364 posts)
8. Our son doesn't look like us.
Fri Apr 3, 2026, 01:14 PM
14 hrs ago

He looks just like my grandfather on my father's side.
They both chose the sport of wrestling, the real kind.
Our son has curly, auburn hair like my Mother-in-law..

EYESORE 9001

(29,742 posts)
11. It's a kaleidoscope of possibilities, I'm tellin' ya
Fri Apr 3, 2026, 01:34 PM
13 hrs ago

My grandfather inherited a gene causing vigorous hair growth on tires, legs, and arms. No one else inherited that trait, except one son of mine, whose hair-suitedness is legendary.

DFW

(60,210 posts)
17. I know I'm going to regret asking this, but.....
Fri Apr 3, 2026, 02:26 PM
12 hrs ago

Just where on his tires was the hair growth? Forward or rear?

DFW

(60,210 posts)
21. When he starts climbing walls and adhering to the ceiling
Fri Apr 3, 2026, 03:18 PM
11 hrs ago

THEN we can start having serious talks about mutants.........

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