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nocoincidences

(2,465 posts)
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 12:24 PM Dec 28

My unfortunate 78th birthday yesterday

I was looking forward to a birthday dinner at Longhorn Steakhouse with my roommates, but when I got out of the car I lost my balance and fell hard. Some kind people who had just arrived to have dinner helped my roommates load me in the car and off we sped to Patient First for treatment. I was in severe pain and found out I broke my clavicle. I finally got back home, had more trouble because I was one-armed, ended up in the floor, had to call the Rescue Squad for a assist and tried to sleep at my desk because I knew I would have to go to the bathroom and wouldn't be able to get up off the couch.

Not exactly a restorative night of sleep, but I got enough ibuprofen in my system that I could work around the pain. I finally got to sleep on the couch this morning around 5:30. I am completely black all over my chest from the bruising.

What a memorable birthday!!

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My unfortunate 78th birthday yesterday (Original Post) nocoincidences Dec 28 OP
Damnation !!!!! Karadeniz Dec 28 #1
Sorry to hear this NJCher Dec 28 #2
Never a good time to fall, but birthday makes it extra hard. quaint Dec 28 #3
Wishing you a speedy recovery. sinkingfeeling Dec 28 #4
Oh geeze! 2naSalit Dec 28 #5
Happy birthday anyway The Blue Flower Dec 28 #6
Ouch, sorry to hear about your bad luck. Hope you heal quickly and are able to get some walkingman Dec 28 #7
Good lord, broken clavicles HURT! LuckyCharms Dec 28 #8
Oh, darn it. I'm sorry to hear that. At least someone was there to take care of you. Some birthday. NT mahatmakanejeeves Dec 28 #9
Happy belated birthday gademocrat7 Dec 28 #10
I am so sorry LetMyPeopleVote Dec 28 #11
Oh! Sorry. Happy bday anyway BlueWaveNeverEnd Dec 28 #12
With all my Medicine, way in the back, Zackzzzz Dec 28 #13
Yikes broke mine finally a surgeon repaired it Historic NY Dec 28 #14
Well that just sucks! Resolve to plan your birthday celebration after healing. CousinIT Dec 28 #15
A quick healing to you. mwmisses4289 Dec 28 #16
I'm sorry that happened to you! yardwork Dec 28 #17
Now that is a memorable birthday.. Permanut Dec 28 #18
Oh no! I'm so sorry this happened to you, nocoincidences. MIButterfly Dec 28 #19
I am so sorry!! essaynnc Dec 28 #20
Sounds horrible and traumatic people Dec 28 #21
Please mend yourself well and a belated happy birthday. TexasTowelie Dec 28 #22
Thank the heavens you didnt break your hip! BradBo Dec 28 #23
I'm sorry your birthday was so painful. I hope you heal quickly and get to enjoy a belated LoisB Dec 28 #24
I am so very sorry, nocoincidences Grim Chieftain Dec 28 #25
Sorry to hear you fell Marthe48 Dec 28 #26
One good thing....today has to be better, right? democrank Dec 28 #27
I am so sorry. nocoincidences. debm55 Dec 28 #28
Healing vibes on the way to you SheltieLover Dec 28 #29
Wow ! cate94 Dec 28 #30
That is terrible on any day, but, on your 78th birthday its just wrong. 1WorldHope Dec 28 #31
What a nasty birthday present! 70sEraVet Dec 28 #32
Wow, that sucks IndyPepper Dec 28 #33
Damn. That sucks. Take care! And on another note: Happy Birthday! GoneOffShore Dec 28 #34
Set a rain date Dear_Prudence Dec 28 #35
poor thing! Jean Genie Dec 28 #36
Well, that's the good news, nocoincidences. calimary Dec 28 #37
so sorry markie Dec 28 #38
I am so sorry Nocoincidences, I hope you get better and get to Longhorn! JMCKUSICK Dec 28 #39
Happy Birthday despite it all, TBF Dec 28 #40
Wishing you a full and rapid recovery orangecrush Dec 28 #41
So sorry for your Birthday misfortune lindalou65 Dec 28 #42
Don't Take No (Birthday Steak) For An Answer FrankTC Dec 28 #43
Thanks to each of you nocoincidences Dec 28 #44
OUCH ! KS Toronado Dec 28 #45
Quite A Night ProfessorGAC Dec 28 #46
Ouch! So sorry you babylonsister Dec 28 #47
Goodness gracious! hamsterjill Dec 29 #48
Without any doubt, that is a memorable birthday Emile Dec 29 #49
Approaching that age myself Aussie105 Dec 29 #50
Congratulations on your 78th trip around the sun fellow, Capricorn Niagara Dec 29 #51
I am so sorry you had to spend your birthday that way Jarqui Dec 29 #52
Happy Birthday 🎂 Speedy Recovery 💚 Give your birthday dinner a second chance 🥩🥔🍰 Clouds Passing Dec 29 #53
my 78th was exactly a month ago mountain grammy Dec 29 #54
I'm so sorry, nocoincidences. sueh Dec 29 #55
May your 79th birthday find you happy and healthy! Wicked Blue Dec 29 #56
I'm so sorry, and on your birthday! HeartsCanHope Dec 29 #57
Wishing you better days ahead for your new rotation around the sun. pandr32 Dec 29 #58

quaint

(4,670 posts)
3. Never a good time to fall, but birthday makes it extra hard.
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 12:27 PM
Dec 28

Hope your pain has lessened and is manageable.

2naSalit

(100,081 posts)
5. Oh geeze!
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 12:29 PM
Dec 28

Wish I was nearby, I has remedies for bruising and some of the pain.

If you can get some arnica salve, it will help the bruises go away faster.

Hope you heal up quickly so you can enjoy the rest of the year!

The Blue Flower

(6,355 posts)
6. Happy birthday anyway
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 12:30 PM
Dec 28

I'm 76 and find it too easy to lose my balance, so I sympathize. So far, I haven't gotten hurt, but who knows? Get as much rest as you need. You're fortunate to have people around to help you. I live alone in a house. Maybe you can find some balance exercise videos to strengthen you. I hope you heal quickly, or at least get past the pain quickly.

walkingman

(10,356 posts)
7. Ouch, sorry to hear about your bad luck. Hope you heal quickly and are able to get some
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 12:32 PM
Dec 28

sleep. Accidents seem to always happen at the most inopportune times (never a good time).

Happy belated birthday ☮

LuckyCharms

(21,835 posts)
8. Good lord, broken clavicles HURT!
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 12:32 PM
Dec 28

Hang in there...you'll feel better.

And birthday wishes to you (I'd tell you happy birthday, but you probably don't feel very happy right now).

I'm so sorry about your injury.

mahatmakanejeeves

(68,275 posts)
9. Oh, darn it. I'm sorry to hear that. At least someone was there to take care of you. Some birthday. NT
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 12:33 PM
Dec 28

gademocrat7

(11,809 posts)
10. Happy belated birthday
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 12:44 PM
Dec 28

Sending healing hugs and good wishes to you, no coincidences.
Sorry you had a fall.

Zackzzzz

(264 posts)
13. With all my Medicine, way in the back,
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 01:08 PM
Dec 28

I have thick pads for just these kinds of occasions.

I broke my left, and I'm left handed: couldn't sign my name.
I had a frozen shoulder, but Physical Therapy cured it.

I touch the walls & furniture to keep my balance as I go from room to room.
.....Just go slow. It is hard to do.


Historic NY

(39,668 posts)
14. Yikes broke mine finally a surgeon repaired it
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 01:11 PM
Dec 28

but still it was weeks. Did they give you a decent sling to immobilize it? I had to wear one 24-7, it helped.

CousinIT

(12,256 posts)
15. Well that just sucks! Resolve to plan your birthday celebration after healing.
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 01:19 PM
Dec 28

Seriously - you triple-deserve it now!

Flip the bird to Fate and goddamned do it anyway after you're healed up.

Permanut

(8,005 posts)
18. Now that is a memorable birthday..
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 01:42 PM
Dec 28

But in 20 years you'll be laughing about it.

Does that help? Didn't think so.

Best wishes for your recovery.

MIButterfly

(2,105 posts)
19. Oh no! I'm so sorry this happened to you, nocoincidences.
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 01:44 PM
Dec 28

I hope you recover quickly and can go out and celebrate your birthday properly at a later date.

Healing vibes from the great state of Michigan are being sent your way. Feel better soon!

essaynnc

(972 posts)
20. I am so sorry!!
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 01:46 PM
Dec 28

Hopefully your days will get better soon, and you can celebrate your birthday late! Heal quickly ...

people

(830 posts)
21. Sounds horrible and traumatic
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 01:47 PM
Dec 28

If you need help around the house please be sure to ask your roommates to help you. Getting old is very hard. You will heal and this will pass.

TexasTowelie

(125,540 posts)
22. Please mend yourself well and a belated happy birthday.
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 01:48 PM
Dec 28

It sounds like you have the same luck as I do. I ended up in the ER with heart failure on my 60th birthday so I know what a bummer it can be to suddenly have plans change.

I'm a bit surprised that they didn't hold you for observation one night.

LoisB

(12,374 posts)
24. I'm sorry your birthday was so painful. I hope you heal quickly and get to enjoy a belated
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 01:59 PM
Dec 28

celebration.

Grim Chieftain

(1,267 posts)
25. I am so very sorry, nocoincidences
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 02:00 PM
Dec 28

Dang! You deserved better than that, especially on your birthday. Fortunately, you had good people around you who stepped in to help. Take care and know we are thinking of you and wishing you a speedy recovery.

Belated Happy Birthday.



cate94

(3,050 posts)
30. Wow !
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 02:12 PM
Dec 28

That really sucks. It would be bad enough on a regular day, but particularly awful on your bday. May the coming year be better in every way for you, and yours.

1WorldHope

(1,862 posts)
31. That is terrible on any day, but, on your 78th birthday its just wrong.
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 02:13 PM
Dec 28

We all need padded suits to protect us when we fall, because, it's almost impossible to stay vertical sometimes. I hope you have someone to help you. Blessings to you. 💙

70sEraVet

(5,250 posts)
32. What a nasty birthday present!
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 02:18 PM
Dec 28

Frequent falls are part of the plague of getting older. I try to be vigilant, but, in times of excitement or anticipation (like looking forward to a juicy steak!) its easy to get in a hurry.
You will be more careful in the future. And that steak will still be waiting for you when you're ready!!
Happy birthday, nocoincidences!

IndyPepper

(60 posts)
33. Wow, that sucks
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 02:21 PM
Dec 28

I'm so sorry about your fall, especially on your birthday. It sounds like you had quite the ordeal. Here's hoping that you heal quickly and fully and eventually get to have your birthday dinner. And, yes, Happy Birthday!!

I'm 74 and I recently fell while walking my dog. Hit the sidewalk pretty hard, but luckily I only suffered some abrasions on my hands and a couple bruised ribs. As we get older those kinds of incidents are even more fraught with danger, aren't they? Take care and keep us posted on your recovery.

GoneOffShore

(17,980 posts)
34. Damn. That sucks. Take care! And on another note: Happy Birthday!
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 02:22 PM
Dec 28

I fainted three weeks ago, crumpled to the floor and ended up with a cut on my chin and one above my eye. Luckily, no other problems. I now have a couple of interesting scars, which, at my age, I'm calling 'distress marks' because I'm definitely an antique.

Dear_Prudence

(1,051 posts)
35. Set a rain date
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 02:37 PM
Dec 28

You deserve your birthday celebration. With the amount of pain, maybe have dinner delivered? I am glad that you lived your tell! Take care.

Jean Genie

(536 posts)
36. poor thing!
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 02:39 PM
Dec 28

So sorry. What a rotten way to celebrate your birthday.
Recuperate, and then when you're up to it, have one HECK of a belated birthday celebration!

calimary

(89,057 posts)
37. Well, that's the good news, nocoincidences.
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 02:40 PM
Dec 28

You’re still here! Wishing you a happy birthday and swift healing.

JMCKUSICK

(5,151 posts)
39. I am so sorry Nocoincidences, I hope you get better and get to Longhorn!
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 02:52 PM
Dec 28

Happy Birthday and Happy New Year

TBF

(35,674 posts)
40. Happy Birthday despite it all,
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 03:10 PM
Dec 28

I have to admit this is very relatable to me. I was really pretty clumsy and wiped out a lot when I was younger and insisted on continuing with my biking/long distance running. Now that I am entering the "older" era of my life, I am a lot more careful especially when it's dark or I'm walking my dog. Stepping off slippery curbs, hitting ice, a squirrel darts out and my dog takes off, etc. It all becomes just a little more treacherous. Take it easy and hopefully you will have smooth healing!

FrankTC

(260 posts)
43. Don't Take No (Birthday Steak) For An Answer
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 03:30 PM
Dec 28

I suppose the philosophical view would be that life’s like that — we often don’t get what we want or deserve or are looking forward to. But I hope you will turn the tables on life, at least this time, and soon be feeling good enough to return to Longhorn with your posse and enjoy a birthday steak dinner without mishap!

nocoincidences

(2,465 posts)
44. Thanks to each of you
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 06:39 PM
Dec 28

for your caring, sympathy empathy, advice....I wish I could speak to each of you personally!

The pain is so much better today. I am not pushing myself too hard to do much. I am truly a klutzy person and it would not be a surprise to find myself on the ground again if I am not careful.

Especially since I started taking the Rx pain pills which make a big difference in my pain tolerance. But they also make me loopy as hell.

The huge bruise all over my chest is horrifying, like I rubbed soot into my skin! I can't wait to see what shades of purple and yellow develops with the healing.

I have nothing to do outside my home for several weeks so plenty of time to heal.

I am blessed to be so free of responsibility right now. I'll just snuggle with my Molly kitty, and watch mindless tv until my mind returns to full power!

hamsterjill

(17,059 posts)
48. Goodness gracious!
Mon Dec 29, 2025, 01:04 AM
Dec 29

That all sounds awful and I'm sorry that it happened to you. I hope you can get some sleep tonight. Sleep is the best medicine!

Sending hugs!

Emile

(40,661 posts)
49. Without any doubt, that is a memorable birthday
Mon Dec 29, 2025, 06:48 AM
Dec 29

you will not forget. Sorry you experienced that on your birthday.

Happy Birthday

Aussie105

(7,654 posts)
50. Approaching that age myself
Mon Dec 29, 2025, 07:33 AM
Dec 29

and finding Gravity is more of a bitch than I ever suspected.
My legs still reach the ground, but sometimes my feet are in the wrong place and Gravity says . . . Got Ya!

I'm working on a design.
It's an antigravity belt, to be worn around the upper chest.
Normal setting is a 25% weight reduction, but if the electronics detect a sudden fall, weight reduction goes up to 90%, for a smooth and gentle landing.

Not getting very far with the design, but I will persevere.

In the meantime, look after yourself.

Those bruises will go yellow and disappear. Eventually.

EDIT: There are exercises you can do to improve your balance and mobility.
A daily gentle walk, slow and with a walking stick if needed.
And diet.
Us oldies tend to stack on the weight in all the wrong places when we are just at an age where weight works against us.

Niagara

(11,540 posts)
51. Congratulations on your 78th trip around the sun fellow, Capricorn
Mon Dec 29, 2025, 07:34 AM
Dec 29

Rest easy, sending healing vibes your way.

Jarqui

(10,824 posts)
52. I am so sorry you had to spend your birthday that way
Mon Dec 29, 2025, 07:50 AM
Dec 29

mountain grammy

(28,687 posts)
54. my 78th was exactly a month ago
Mon Dec 29, 2025, 10:16 AM
Dec 29

I can't remember what we did.. it snowed that day (I took a picture is how I know) so we probably stayed home.

I'm glad it's not memorable.. so sorry about your injury. Hope you heal completely and soon!

Oh and Happy Birthday!

Wicked Blue

(8,463 posts)
56. May your 79th birthday find you happy and healthy!
Mon Dec 29, 2025, 11:15 AM
Dec 29

Meanwhile, I hope you heal quickly.
Happy birthday.

HeartsCanHope

(1,531 posts)
57. I'm so sorry, and on your birthday!
Mon Dec 29, 2025, 11:56 AM
Dec 29

Hoping you heal quickly and that the rest of your year is much better! Sending healing vibes and a belated Happy Birthday!

..






pandr32

(13,797 posts)
58. Wishing you better days ahead for your new rotation around the sun.
Mon Dec 29, 2025, 12:13 PM
Dec 29

Sounds like you really hurt yourself and broken bones take weeks to recover. You need good sleep for your recovery, too. Hopefully, you can work out how to sleep properly and get up when you need to.
Hugs!

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