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Aristus

(71,413 posts)
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 11:29 AM Nov 21

I need a drink.

Seriously. I don't know how much more of this I can take. I'm just emotionally exhausted. I want to curl up in a corner and cry.

But I won't; not as long as I have my beloved Loungers.

I hope you will join me for cocktail hour this evening.

I love you all...

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I need a drink. (Original Post) Aristus Nov 21 OP
"But I don't want to go among mad people," Alice remarked. Ocelot II Nov 21 #1
Good analogy vapor2 Nov 21 #9
I'd love to attend EYESORE 9001 Nov 21 #2
I will be happy to join you! redwitch Nov 21 #3
Drambuie I got. Aristus Nov 21 #5
I hear ya but frankly I haven't felt this optimistic or at least not pessimistic underpants Nov 21 #4
People just don't like him. MLWR Nov 21 #11
Love you too, Aristus Grim Chieftain Nov 21 #6
See you then. Aristus Nov 21 #8
Regarding the saying of how even a broken clock is right twice a day? DeeDeeNY Nov 21 #7
If the clock isn't working, PoindexterOglethorpe Nov 21 #33
You certainly are not alone. pandr32 Nov 21 #10
I'm ready to pour a couple fingers of PA's finest Rye, or any of several solid bourbons The Polack MSgt Nov 21 #12
Can do, Top. Aristus Nov 21 #17
Happy hour here starts at 4pm... MiHale Nov 21 #13
Friday is G & T KT2000 Nov 21 #14
count me in! Trueblue Texan Nov 21 #15
actually a drink sounds kinda good/fun. haven't had one in months orleans Nov 21 #16
Sounds delicious. Aristus Nov 21 #18
well then... orleans Nov 21 #22
To absent friends... Aristus Nov 21 #23
Illegitimi non carborundum Marthe48 Nov 21 #19
Do you do Connections? Marthe48 Nov 21 #20
I don't. Aristus Nov 21 #21
Spoiler alert Marthe48 Nov 21 #24
What were some of the cocktails? Aristus Nov 21 #25
Greyhound was the one I didn't know Marthe48 Nov 21 #28
That's terrible! Aristus Nov 21 #29
My family is noted for inappropriate responses to stress Marthe48 Nov 21 #31
I've been the Klass Klown in more classes than I can count. Aristus Nov 21 #32
Well, it is Friday! PJMcK Nov 21 #26
Enjoy! Aristus Nov 21 #30
A Dominican friend recently gave me a johnnyfins Nov 21 #27
I'll be joining you in spirit only, PoindexterOglethorpe Nov 21 #34
Oh my goodness, no! Aristus Nov 21 #35
I'm actually doing quite well at this point. PoindexterOglethorpe Nov 21 #36
Enjoying my Drambuie. redwitch Nov 21 #37
I'mnRight there drinking with you bud Tribetime Nov 21 #38

Ocelot II

(128,543 posts)
1. "But I don't want to go among mad people," Alice remarked.
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 11:35 AM
Nov 21

"Oh, you can’t help that," said the Cat: "we’re all mad here. I’m mad. You’re mad."
"How do you know I’m mad?" said Alice.
"You must be," said the Cat, "or you wouldn’t have come here.”

I hear ya...

vapor2

(3,530 posts)
9. Good analogy
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 11:54 AM
Nov 21

We're all exhausted by his lies, his tantrums, his disregard for the law or for human life. Hang in there

EYESORE 9001

(29,371 posts)
2. I'd love to attend
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 11:39 AM
Nov 21

Alas, my drink this evening (lemon tek) is not conducive to coherent conversation. I may drop by if I’m not too ‘cosmic’,

underpants

(194,195 posts)
4. I hear ya but frankly I haven't felt this optimistic or at least not pessimistic
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 11:40 AM
Nov 21

in months. He’s crumbling. His numbers are abysmal. We had massive wins just a few weeks ago. People just don’t like him. The ICE crap is seen by most everyone as horrible and tearing down part of the White House was way over a line people didn’t even know they had.

I’ll join you though.

MLWR

(705 posts)
11. People just don't like him.
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 01:30 PM
Nov 21

Because there is absolutely NOTHING likeable about him. NOTHING AT ALL.

Grim Chieftain

(1,027 posts)
6. Love you too, Aristus
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 11:43 AM
Nov 21

And I know just how you feel. The joy in life is gone for me. I know we are not supposed to discuss politics in The Lounge, so I won't, but I just want to feel safe and yes, happy again.

There are times I want a stiff drink in the middle of the day, so my husband and I only have wine in the house. I'm not going to let present circumstances lead me down that dark path. I pray for happier days. Soon.

See you tonight, friend.

Aristus

(71,413 posts)
8. See you then.
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 11:52 AM
Nov 21

That's it; you said it: the joy is gone out of our lives. And the hell of it is, that is the goal for these horrible people: to suck all the joy out of life. To make us angry and embittered.

I thought Reagan's "Morning In America" was a load of crap. But at least it was designed to appeal to our national sense of optimism, and the hope of a better tomorrow.

We've lost our vaunted optimism; always one of the better traits in our national character.

DeeDeeNY

(3,876 posts)
7. Regarding the saying of how even a broken clock is right twice a day?
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 11:50 AM
Nov 21

Shitler has somehow even broken that rule!

PoindexterOglethorpe

(28,377 posts)
33. If the clock isn't working,
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 05:12 PM
Nov 21

how in the world would you know the one minute every twelve hours that it's right? You need a working clock for that.

pandr32

(13,675 posts)
10. You certainly are not alone.
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 12:02 PM
Nov 21

The stress is constant. Concentration and sleep are hard to achieve. Day after day, week after week, etc., and no end in sight. Trying to hold on to hope and small moments of joy and repeat them to myself like a mantra so I don't forget.
An early cheers to you if I am unable to check in later.

The Polack MSgt

(13,694 posts)
12. I'm ready to pour a couple fingers of PA's finest Rye, or any of several solid bourbons
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 01:41 PM
Nov 21

Mrs Polack is playing Volleyball tonight so just pull on up.

MiHale

(12,432 posts)
13. Happy hour here starts at 4pm...
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 01:46 PM
Nov 21

We’re usually done with chores by then.

(of course we will be)

On edit…thoughts that came too late…
It’s a beautiful sunny day here after a 24 hour period of unnerving heavy mist captured our area…and nothing is going to take that away from me.
I was a very chunky kid and was bullied because of it. Plus being a rural farm kid transplanted to a city environment at the tender age of ten added tinder to the flames. The 50’s were not my favorite time.
I utterly refuse to be bullied theses days and that is all trumpig is a bully.
He will die in disgrace…I will pass with a smile.

orleans

(36,577 posts)
16. actually a drink sounds kinda good/fun. haven't had one in months
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 02:16 PM
Nov 21

and i've got coconut rum!!!
maybe tonight i'll pour some... and think of you

Marthe48

(22,477 posts)
19. Illegitimi non carborundum
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 03:20 PM
Nov 21

My Dad had a little sign hanging in the meat department of our family grocery. The sentiment certainly carries me on some days :/

Excelsior!

Marthe48

(22,477 posts)
28. Greyhound was the one I didn't know
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 04:04 PM
Nov 21

that fit in the group.

But there is also a cocktail called Bolt Cutter.

I didn't get a perfect score today.

I have an off-color cocktail joke:

A young lady was being chauffeured back to her college after a weekend at home. On the way, one of the tires went flat. The chauffeur parked the car, and opened the trunk to get the tools and spare to change the tire. However, some of the tools were missing. As the chauffeur stood thinking about the problem, the young lady, unfamiliar with tire-changing, but wanting to be helpful, leaned out the window and asked, "Do you want a screwdriver?"
The chauffeur muttered, "May as well. I can't change the tire."

Marthe48

(22,477 posts)
31. My family is noted for inappropriate responses to stress
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 04:11 PM
Nov 21

being a clown is always good Well, mostly.

PJMcK

(24,504 posts)
26. Well, it is Friday!
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 03:57 PM
Nov 21

Vodka-buzz tonight.

We have guests coming by at 5:00 so we’ll be starting a little earlier than normal.

Cheers!

johnnyfins

(3,321 posts)
27. A Dominican friend recently gave me a
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 03:59 PM
Nov 21

bottle of Mamajuana. I'M Interested to sample it, but I have the dreaded head/chest cold. Maybe next Friday. Cheers to all ya.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(28,377 posts)
34. I'll be joining you in spirit only,
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 05:15 PM
Nov 21

as I had a heart attack four days ago, and can't drink at least for a while.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(28,377 posts)
36. I'm actually doing quite well at this point.
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 06:08 PM
Nov 21

No pain, but I absolutely must remember that at least for a bit, I need to take it very easy. I'm 77. Heart disease runs in my family, both sides. No cancer. If I'd had to choose, I'd take heart disease over cancer.

I also tend to recover quickly from anything.

redwitch

(15,220 posts)
37. Enjoying my Drambuie.
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 08:08 PM
Nov 21

But I am so tired tonight I’m gonna go to bed early.
Hang in there everyone!

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