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2naSalit

(99,334 posts)
Mon Oct 20, 2025, 09:10 PM Oct 20

Requesting a big round of applause...

For DUer, OAITW r.2.0!!!

Why you might ask?

Because he was amazingly generous in offering to put me up in his home while I searched for housing on my own in the great state of Maine.

I had been toying with the idea of leaving Montana and coming to Maine, where I spent 98% of my childhood, but was concerned about how I would be able to do it. Last year, while I was here for the eclipse, OAITW r.2.0 offered me a place to be while I searched. Also helped unload the truck and then move in here along with his wonderful son.

I finally found and moved into my apartment and am in the middle of my first week here.

A four month stay, a big garden and a bunch of doggie treats made for a reasonably good summer knowing I wasn't in a deep red state any longer. Amazing the level of stress I hadn't noticed building up until I got here. At OAITW r.2.0's I had company and help in looking at places and getting a feel for the area. He also got a room for me when I had a problem in Illinois on the way. There were odd moments, neither of us had lived with another human in a rather long time so getting used to that was different at our ages. All in all, it was a mutual benefit exercise and we both have a better living situation because of it.

So I would like DU to join me in offering big kudos to Skippa's dad for helping in such a bigly way, helping a fellow DUer seeking a better living situation for retirement on a shoestring budget. Relocating is hard and expensive, this was eased by Skippa's dad!




And, as I have come to realize and am thankful for, I'll say it again... DU ALWAYS COMES THROUGH!!*

I hope that there are other DUers out there who have had a DUer connect and lend a hand or whatever.



*As many saw last June while I was in transit and left my wallet in a restroom, Duer Sinkingfeeling and her son came out to help me get my car off and back on the trailer so I could drive back and get it! Questioneverything also showed up with spouse and helped with the unloading. They got there so fast I hadn't left the room to go meet them outside before they arrived! Bless all of you for your help as well!

TIA!

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Requesting a big round of applause... (Original Post) 2naSalit Oct 20 OP
DU is a great place for so many reasons. 3catwoman3 Oct 20 #1
Yes it is... 2naSalit Oct 20 #3
Kudos. LoisB Oct 20 #2
This is a great journal of your travels to a better place peacebuzzard Oct 20 #4
I am so glad UpInArms Oct 20 #5
Thank you! 2naSalit Oct 20 #6
We know how to DO-YOU. chouchou Oct 20 #7
I'm so happy for you! Congratulations to oaitw for being so generous of spirit as I am sure it will be repaid many times questionseverything Oct 20 #8
Big congrats on your new place, 2naSalit! Bayard Oct 20 #9
Congrats kimbutgar Oct 20 #10
Kudos to sinkingfeeling and OAITW for their kindness. sheshe2 Oct 20 #11
So happy for you! Maine is a truly lovely place. nt SunSeeker Oct 20 #12
Wonderful! Solly Mack Oct 20 #13
How wonderful for everyone involved!! chowder66 Oct 20 #14
More proof . . . AverageOldGuy Oct 20 #15
Hear, hear! What a generously good group to be a part of. yonder Oct 20 #16
Great story and thanks for sharing. I remember the trailer and misplaced wallet issue. Yes, DU rocks. c-rational Oct 20 #17
OAITW is a lovely human being in every way that exists. blm Oct 20 #18
Wow.. What an Amazing Journey you've Cha Oct 20 #19
Thanks... 2naSalit Oct 20 #20
The Gaslit Traitor Schmoozer Cha Oct 21 #25
Best of luck to you mountain grammy Oct 20 #21
DU has been a family to me, so I understand fully JMCKUSICK Oct 20 #22
OAITW r.2.0 is a hero for helping you escape a red hellhole! SheltieLover Oct 20 #23
In the over 20 years I have been here Tree Lady Oct 21 #24
Reading this warmed my 🩵💛💜 + ultralite001 Oct 21 #26
Welcome to New England, neighbor. democrank Oct 21 #27
Thanks... 2naSalit Oct 21 #28
I always enjoy reading welcoming and "I'm here to help" type of people and threads on DU, 2naSalit Niagara Oct 21 #29
Well done, OAITW r.2.0 and 2naSalit! LuckyCharms Oct 21 #30
Heartwarming is an overused word, but that really qualifies! Such generosity by OAITW r.2.0, Scrivener7 Oct 21 #31
Proud to be member of such Prairie_Seagull Oct 21 #32
"" AllaN01Bear Oct 21 #33
Oh geez..... OAITW r.2.0 Oct 21 #34
Getting ready to... 2naSalit Oct 21 #35
This is so touching MorbidButterflyTat Oct 21 #36
It was entirely my pleasure to host you this summer. OAITW r.2.0 Oct 21 #37
Hear, hear, OAITW r.2.0! Congrats, 2naSalit. Enjoy your return to Maine! electric_blue68 Oct 22 #38

2naSalit

(99,334 posts)
3. Yes it is...
Mon Oct 20, 2025, 09:23 PM
Oct 20

Has become my primary community, you're always here 24/7.

I'm not on24/7 but the site is.

peacebuzzard

(5,784 posts)
4. This is a great journal of your travels to a better place
Mon Oct 20, 2025, 09:27 PM
Oct 20

lovely transition, welcome to the east coast.
I have met a few DUers. A few of us are still here I think; with the name changes it’s hard to keep up.
Glad u made it in one piece, thanks for sharing your wonderful journey

UpInArms

(53,844 posts)
5. I am so glad
Mon Oct 20, 2025, 09:28 PM
Oct 20

that you are well and happy

and that this awesome DU family had something to do with all of it

You are one of my touchstone duers and I always hope your life is good

questionseverything

(11,506 posts)
8. I'm so happy for you! Congratulations to oaitw for being so generous of spirit as I am sure it will be repaid many times
Mon Oct 20, 2025, 09:41 PM
Oct 20

Bayard

(28,123 posts)
9. Big congrats on your new place, 2naSalit!
Mon Oct 20, 2025, 09:48 PM
Oct 20

And HUGE applause for OAITW for opening his home and his heart. A perfect example of Paying It Forward.


I received serious help from someone on DU a number of years ago, and it changed my life. I also met my best friend, Duppers, on here.
DU rocks!

sheshe2

(95,174 posts)
11. Kudos to sinkingfeeling and OAITW for their kindness.
Mon Oct 20, 2025, 09:59 PM
Oct 20

So glad you made it to the East Coast and are settled into your new home. Being from Montana you are no stranger to the cold and snow that is to come.

DUers are the best.

yonder

(10,209 posts)
16. Hear, hear! What a generously good group to be a part of.
Mon Oct 20, 2025, 10:28 PM
Oct 20

Hats off to OAITW r.2, the other DU'ers who came through on the way and a hearty good luck in your next chapter.



c-rational

(3,116 posts)
17. Great story and thanks for sharing. I remember the trailer and misplaced wallet issue. Yes, DU rocks.
Mon Oct 20, 2025, 10:36 PM
Oct 20

Cha

(316,116 posts)
19. Wow.. What an Amazing Journey you've
Mon Oct 20, 2025, 10:44 PM
Oct 20

had from Montana to Maine, 2naSalit! I'm So Happy for you!

And All the Help you got from Wonderful DUers~

Now you're in the Thick of Fighting For Our Democracy in Maine! 💙

JMCKUSICK

(4,763 posts)
22. DU has been a family to me, so I understand fully
Mon Oct 20, 2025, 11:11 PM
Oct 20

The generosity of our members.
There's so much love here.

SheltieLover

(75,554 posts)
23. OAITW r.2.0 is a hero for helping you escape a red hellhole!
Mon Oct 20, 2025, 11:43 PM
Oct 20

As are the other DUers who helped you along the way!

I am so happy for you that you are now settled back into civilization!

Tree Lady

(12,954 posts)
24. In the over 20 years I have been here
Tue Oct 21, 2025, 12:16 AM
Oct 21

This place is so much more than a online site. I haven't seen anyone in person in a long time but I have before.

We are all on the same team with goals that are close to what we all believe.

We believe in kindness and helping our fellow man or woman.

This site gives us strength and unity of purpose.

ultralite001

(2,340 posts)
26. Reading this warmed my 🩵💛💜 +
Tue Oct 21, 2025, 01:13 AM
Oct 21

Brought tears to my eyes…

May your days be bright w/ continued good fortune…

democrank

(12,022 posts)
27. Welcome to New England, neighbor.
Tue Oct 21, 2025, 01:13 AM
Oct 21

I’m so glad you’re here. It’s heartwarming to learn of the support you had along the way.

Take good care ~

2naSalit

(99,334 posts)
28. Thanks...
Tue Oct 21, 2025, 05:54 AM
Oct 21

It was a decision to come home so to speak, I grew up in the northern Casco Bay area but don't want to be that close to the shore these days. I'll take a drive down there soon, I'm up near Bangor at the moment.

Niagara

(11,259 posts)
29. I always enjoy reading welcoming and "I'm here to help" type of people and threads on DU, 2naSalit
Tue Oct 21, 2025, 06:52 AM
Oct 21

I'm happy that you received the much needed help from our own DU community.

Here's to happier days to you and enjoy yourself with your new somewhat new state adventure.





Disclaimer to any nitpickers/nosepickers: If I didn't express myself clearly it's early for me and my coffee hasn't kicked in yet.


Scrivener7

(57,990 posts)
31. Heartwarming is an overused word, but that really qualifies! Such generosity by OAITW r.2.0,
Tue Oct 21, 2025, 07:14 AM
Oct 21

and I'm so glad you were able to relocate to a place where you feel at home.

I wish you both all good things.

OAITW r.2.0

(31,175 posts)
34. Oh geez.....
Tue Oct 21, 2025, 12:37 PM
Oct 21

you had to do it, didn't you?



The Skippa is already missing you and the chewy treats you delivered, I think. The rest of the tomato's are ripening, you'll need to come over so I can offload a bunch of them.

OAITW r.2.0

(31,175 posts)
37. It was entirely my pleasure to host you this summer.
Tue Oct 21, 2025, 08:26 PM
Oct 21

You are the Garden Master (Mistrisse?) and Keeper of the Seeds~ Thanks.

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