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LuckyCharms

(20,759 posts)
Mon Oct 6, 2025, 08:55 PM 2 hrs ago

Holy cow. For some reason, I aged 20 years today.

Severe bone pain in just about every part of my body. Sudden onset.

I've been fairly physical lately, but nothing that would cause this.

Severe pain, like morphine craving pain. Can barely walk, can't even bend down to pet the dog.

I have a ton of opiates here, but I'm not going to take any. They constipate me...I'd rather bear the pain.

I can't tell you how bad this fucking sucks. Wait a minute, yes I can tell you! That's why I'm posting it!

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Holy cow. For some reason, I aged 20 years today. (Original Post) LuckyCharms 2 hrs ago OP
I hope you get the 20 years back tomorrow. Harker 2 hrs ago #1
I hope so... LuckyCharms 2 hrs ago #2
Mrs. Charms there, ready to drive you if needed? Harker 2 hrs ago #7
She is, but I doubt I could get into the car. LuckyCharms 2 hrs ago #9
They can come to you, I hope. Harker 2 hrs ago #13
I took an ambulance ONCE LuckyCharms 2 hrs ago #14
I'm sure you can concoct an implausible back story to shut up the vultures. Harker 2 hrs ago #17
I...I....injured my genitals with a wooden headed axe! LuckyCharms 2 hrs ago #18
Well, it has plausibility going for it. nt eppur_se_muova 1 hr ago #21
Jeez Mr. Charms....is it a full moon? LuckyCharms 1 hr ago #22
It seems we age in sudden leaps and not gradually biophile 2 hrs ago #3
It might be spinal related... LuckyCharms 2 hrs ago #6
Any reason you might have injured your coccyx ? I suffered a pull to my coccygeal ligament picking up a piece of paper. eppur_se_muova 1 hr ago #24
The painful touch isn't exactly at my coccyx... LuckyCharms 1 hr ago #26
Per dose. Four doses per day. Warned not to continue beyond 3-4 days. eppur_se_muova 1 hr ago #30
24 grams a day???????? LuckyCharms 1 hr ago #32
I'm pretty sure the caloric value was non-neglible. nt eppur_se_muova 1 hr ago #33
Maximum dose suggested is 4,000 mg/day. LuckyCharms 1 hr ago #35
I don't recall that they did. OTOH, I had no other health issues, and was (reasonably) young and healthy. nt eppur_se_muova 1 hr ago #36
Have you ever had a compression fracture? Marthe48 1 hr ago #40
Thanks Marthe...no compression fracture that I know of. LuckyCharms 1 hr ago #41
Maybe a nerve is pinched Marthe48 48 min ago #43
Yeah, no one warned me PatSeg 1 hr ago #23
SO SORRY! elleng 2 hrs ago #4
Oh No!!! calimary 2 hrs ago #5
Hope you are feeling better LuckyCharms. debm55 2 hrs ago #8
You didn't just STOP taking opioids today after having taken them the past couple of days? AZJonnie 2 hrs ago #10
Thanks Jonnie... LuckyCharms 2 hrs ago #12
My dear LuckyCharms! CaliforniaPeggy 2 hrs ago #11
Personally, I would head straight to E.R. or call 911 to come get me. Pain is a message. LoisB 2 hrs ago #15
Get-your-ass-to-the-hospital. Please! chouchou 2 hrs ago #16
Thinking seriously about it... LuckyCharms 1 hr ago #20
Sounds like your best option PatSeg 1 hr ago #25
Horrible! I'm so sorry! Pain sucks! Diamond_Dog 2 hrs ago #19
Is it possible that you are dehydrated? Hope22 1 hr ago #27
Thank you. No...I drink 2 liters of water a day, plus 2 huge mugs of decaf. LuckyCharms 1 hr ago #31
Pain is a message Lucky. mnhtnbb 1 hr ago #28
My dear LC, holding you in light, with lots of very gentle virtual hugs. niyad 1 hr ago #29
I'm really sorry to hear that LuckyCharms, JMCKUSICK 1 hr ago #34
My spine is in bad shape John... LuckyCharms 1 hr ago #38
Any change in medication? Easterncedar 1 hr ago #37
I've been taking a statin for decades. No change in dosage. LuckyCharms 1 hr ago #39
Not that then Easterncedar 56 min ago #42
Probably not the issue, but before I was diagnosed with Rheumatoid Arthritis... pat_k 45 min ago #44
Woah, LC! Maybe you should get an ambulance... electric_blue68 30 min ago #45
Have you tried ibuprofen? iemanja 16 min ago #46
My day like that was June 16/25 Mira 13 min ago #47
Hang in there Brother BaronChocula 11 min ago #48

LuckyCharms

(20,759 posts)
2. I hope so...
Mon Oct 6, 2025, 08:59 PM
2 hrs ago

It's so bad... never had anything quite like this. Scaring the shit out of me to be honest...

LuckyCharms

(20,759 posts)
14. I took an ambulance ONCE
Mon Oct 6, 2025, 09:16 PM
2 hrs ago

and I was so embarrassed that I'd rather crawl the 3 miles to the hospital.

Neighbors looking out their windows like a bunch of vultures.

LuckyCharms

(20,759 posts)
18. I...I....injured my genitals with a wooden headed axe!
Mon Oct 6, 2025, 09:23 PM
2 hrs ago

Yeah! That's what happened!

Excuse me sir, what did you do?

OWWWWWW just go onto DU at look for the axe thread , lady!!!!

FUUUUUUUUUUCCCCKKKK!!!

Calm down sir, or I'll have to call security....

LuckyCharms

(20,759 posts)
22. Jeez Mr. Charms....is it a full moon?
Mon Oct 6, 2025, 09:33 PM
1 hr ago

You're the fourth patient today that cut his junk off with a wooden-headed axe.

Have a seat in the waiting room....the doctor will see you in 9 hours.

biophile

(927 posts)
3. It seems we age in sudden leaps and not gradually
Mon Oct 6, 2025, 08:59 PM
2 hrs ago

It can be like hitting a wall sometimes. But you might also have an infection or flu of some sort that is knocking you down like that.

LuckyCharms

(20,759 posts)
6. It might be spinal related...
Mon Oct 6, 2025, 09:03 PM
2 hrs ago

Very tender to the touch right above my butt crack. But I don't know why everything else is hurting...

I've been posting like an idiot trying to distract myself.

I'll have to go to the ER if this doesn't resolve.

eppur_se_muova

(40,239 posts)
24. Any reason you might have injured your coccyx ? I suffered a pull to my coccygeal ligament picking up a piece of paper.
Mon Oct 6, 2025, 09:53 PM
1 hr ago

(It's that little projection of the spine below the pelvis that used to serve the purpose of supporting a tail, even for those of us who don't have one. Now, it's an anchor point for various muscles in the back, hips, and possibly legs. I turned to the side too quickly while I was bending over and my body's own momentum exerted the stress that pulled the ligament.)

I told the doctor I was worried I might have gotten a hairline fracture. She shook her head sadly and informed my she had once fractured her coccyx and said it hurt a Hell of a lot more than what I was going through. Prescribed cure was HUGE doses of acetominophen (Tylenol); at low dosages, it's an analgesic, at higher doses it's a powerful anti-inflammatory. My Rx called for six 1000mg tablets (Rx only) four times a day. Not something to try without doctor's recommendation, but you might try checking your OTC Tylenol for the maximum daily dose, and giving that a shot, if it's consistent with your other conditions/Rx's.

If you already have a donut cushion, see if it helps.

There's actually a medical condition known as https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coccydynia -- lots of info at the Wiki (amazing how much there is to know about a part of our anatomy we're usually scarcely aware exists). Hopefully you won't have to have a https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coccygectomy.

LuckyCharms

(20,759 posts)
26. The painful touch isn't exactly at my coccyx...
Mon Oct 6, 2025, 10:00 PM
1 hr ago

It's a bit to the right.

The past few weeks, I've been getting large-gauge needle steroid injections directly into a skin condition that just happened to break out in the area this particular flare up. But I don't think the pain is from that, because the injections were far enough away from where the pain is.

Jesus...6 grams of Tylenol in one day? Did your doc monitor your liver function????

eppur_se_muova

(40,239 posts)
30. Per dose. Four doses per day. Warned not to continue beyond 3-4 days.
Mon Oct 6, 2025, 10:03 PM
1 hr ago

The label on the bottle gives a much smaller max dosage (legal CYA) but the doc assured me they sometimes need to do this with a Rx.

LuckyCharms

(20,759 posts)
35. Maximum dose suggested is 4,000 mg/day.
Mon Oct 6, 2025, 10:11 PM
1 hr ago

And you're right, some of that is CYA, but holy crap, that's 6 times the recommended maximum dose.

I'm really curious....did they monitor your liver functions while you were taking this?

eppur_se_muova

(40,239 posts)
36. I don't recall that they did. OTOH, I had no other health issues, and was (reasonably) young and healthy. nt
Mon Oct 6, 2025, 10:13 PM
1 hr ago

Marthe48

(22,008 posts)
40. Have you ever had a compression fracture?
Mon Oct 6, 2025, 10:20 PM
1 hr ago

They happen suddenly and are very painful. My neighbor had one in her 80s, in the early 2000s and she said it was worse than childbirth. I can't remember the treatment she got, but it took her some time to get better. Around 2012, my husband's elderly uncle had some trouble with his vertebrae, and got some kind of gooey liquid injected that stabilized the problem area. He got the treatment as out-patient, and did pretty well. He was in his 80s as well.
Whatever is causing your pain, hope you can get it diagnosed and fixed.


I wish you well.

LuckyCharms

(20,759 posts)
41. Thanks Marthe...no compression fracture that I know of.
Mon Oct 6, 2025, 10:26 PM
1 hr ago

But just about every lumbar and thoracic disc is blown out.

I've done a lot of heavy work in the past decade that was made for a younger man, but not me.

I'm paying the piper now for it.

It ALWAYS resolves, eventually. But this one feels different. It's my back, hips, knees, arms.

PatSeg

(51,070 posts)
23. Yeah, no one warned me
Mon Oct 6, 2025, 09:49 PM
1 hr ago

how quickly some of these ailments will overtake us when we get older. I often feel betrayed by own body.

AZJonnie

(1,756 posts)
10. You didn't just STOP taking opioids today after having taken them the past couple of days?
Mon Oct 6, 2025, 09:07 PM
2 hrs ago

Because if so, that would be the cause

If I have to take opioids I just pop a stool softener with the first one. Works a treat to avoid the constipation. I just mean, if pain gets too bad, that's an option. Also, even if there's some APAP in the opioid formulation, it's not typically a problem to also add some NSAIDs (like aspirin, naproxen, or ibuprofen) and they work noticeably better in combination, for me at least.

Sorry you're hurting today buddy, get better soon!

LuckyCharms

(20,759 posts)
12. Thanks Jonnie...
Mon Oct 6, 2025, 09:11 PM
2 hrs ago

I try not to take opiates at home. Last time Ii had opiates was via IV a few months ago in the hospital for an unrelated issue.

I can't take NSAIDS...kidney disease.

The opiates that I have are the ones with Tylenol in them.

CaliforniaPeggy

(155,275 posts)
11. My dear LuckyCharms!
Mon Oct 6, 2025, 09:08 PM
2 hrs ago

I know how difficult it can be to do something to fix this new foreign pain. But when it's this bad, someone needs to have a good look at you.

Pain is a message from your body. Heed it.

LoisB

(11,762 posts)
15. Personally, I would head straight to E.R. or call 911 to come get me. Pain is a message.
Mon Oct 6, 2025, 09:17 PM
2 hrs ago

PatSeg

(51,070 posts)
25. Sounds like your best option
Mon Oct 6, 2025, 09:54 PM
1 hr ago

what you're experiencing doesn't sound normal and calling an ambulance is perfectly reasonable under the circumstances.

Hope22

(4,197 posts)
27. Is it possible that you are dehydrated?
Mon Oct 6, 2025, 10:01 PM
1 hr ago

I hope you are feeling better soon! 💗🙏🏼💐

mnhtnbb

(32,908 posts)
28. Pain is a message Lucky.
Mon Oct 6, 2025, 10:02 PM
1 hr ago

Please get yourself to the ER, or at least Urgent Care if you have one still open.

I had an episode of low back muscle spasms last December that was so severe I could hardly stand up. Had to get the walker from past joint replacements out to be able to walk to the car. My son took me to Urgent Care. Got a shot and within an hour I could walk without the walker. They also gave me muscle relaxants and suggested pain patches.

Get yourself some help!

niyad

(127,717 posts)
29. My dear LC, holding you in light, with lots of very gentle virtual hugs.
Mon Oct 6, 2025, 10:03 PM
1 hr ago

Please do not be embarrassed to use an ambulance if necessary. You are dear to us, and we want you properly cared for. Don't make me come up there!!!

LuckyCharms

(20,759 posts)
38. My spine is in bad shape John...
Mon Oct 6, 2025, 10:15 PM
1 hr ago

I'm getting about 3 CT scans a year on my hips and back the past few years.

But it calms down sometimes, so I'm hoping this is just a flare up.

Easterncedar

(5,007 posts)
42. Not that then
Mon Oct 6, 2025, 10:31 PM
56 min ago

Generally, it’s less likely you will get stuck in the ER waiting room if you arrive by ambulance. Walk-ins tend to go to the back of the line.

I hope you feel better as fast as this came on, but also urge you to have this checked out. Meanwhile, an ice pack on the base of your spine might help calm things down. (I am no expert, just an old person with some experience caring for even older persons. Please see someone and get better advice!)

pat_k

(11,988 posts)
44. Probably not the issue, but before I was diagnosed with Rheumatoid Arthritis...
Mon Oct 6, 2025, 10:42 PM
45 min ago

.. I went through almost a year where I had various pains/limited mobility. Hip flexor one week. A couple weeks later, rotator cuff. The next week, a knee. Then wrist pain.

I was a pretty active person and just wrote off as "I pulled something." Or "I'm getting older, I should be more careful."

Then it was less and less time between episodes of this or that. Then multiple joints at once, and then, it seemed like overnight, I was rolling myself to the bathroom on my office chair because walking was too painful and the aching in my wrists was unbearable. I couldn't sleep. I remember just crying at times in the middle of the night. I couldn't even open my own door or reach a kitchen cabinet.

Fortunately, I was rapidly referred to an excellent Rheumatologist. I had all the Rheumatoid indicators*, which usually translates to severe disease. I was put on Enbel, 15 mg Methotrexate weekly, and 400 mg Hydroxychloroquine daily. The pain resolved completely in a few weeks I think. I've generally been in remission now for about 15 years, albeit, with a few flare ups and medication changes. And when I do have a flare up and the pain is back, I can't believe how bad it is. It's strange. We are very good at forgetting pain until we re-experience it.

* Anti-citrullinated protein antibodies (ACPA), Anti-mutated citrullinated vimentin (anti-MCV), C-reactive protein (CRP), Rheumatoid Factor (RF), high Erythrocyte sed rate... and I think other indicators I don't recall.

electric_blue68

(24,137 posts)
45. Woah, LC! Maybe you should get an ambulance...
Mon Oct 6, 2025, 10:57 PM
30 min ago

Since you're being affected in alot of areas.

GOOD Luck!

Mira

(22,600 posts)
47. My day like that was June 16/25
Mon Oct 6, 2025, 11:13 PM
13 min ago

My journey was painful and immediate from one moment to the next, as you describe, and the problem was that parts of my back were broken, and the diagnosis took time. I then had injections of glue in the broken area. Did not help much. Then a massive steroid injection into the lower part of the spine. Finally ended up with lumbar surgery to open regions of the spine that did not allow my nerves to travel freely.
That surgery was 3 weeks ago. I am pain-free today, and off all meds. My 84-year-old surgeon, who operated to classical music, I heard it as I went under, promised an 80 percent success. It was 100 percent.
I had no summer this year, but I am mending, and my life has been returned to me.

Bottom line: get immediate attention, get immediate diagnosis, get in line, be a squeaky wheel, the waiting times for the procedures can be weeks.

We may not have the same problems, but the pain sounds identical. I also could not set down a dog dish for weeks.
I hired a neighbor who is young and unemployed to come in a few hours every day to do the things I could not. I tapped into a bit of money I saved for emergencies, put it in an envelope, and still have a bit left.

I wish you great help, immediately, and if I wrote too much, I am sorry; it was a bit cathartic.

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