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Grasswire2

(13,829 posts)
Thu Jun 5, 2025, 02:17 AM Yesterday

A cautionary tale re: trying TOO HARD to open a jar.

In October, I sprained my hand and wrist on a 40 ounce new jar of JIF peanut butter. Plastic.
I was DETERMINED to open it, and tried really really hard.
I sprained my wrist and hand in the effort.
Six months later, this is the status:
Can't make a fist.
Thumb is now frozen.
Painful to rotate hand.
Painful to pick things up.
My dominant hand.
Tomorrow I will see a "hand specialist" in orthopedic dept.
There's nothing wrong with the bones; the problem is with the ligaments or tendons or whatever.
I should have had an MRI early on, but I was told (wrongly) that I could not have an MI because I have a pacemaker.

So BE CAREFUL trying to open a difficult jar.

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A cautionary tale re: trying TOO HARD to open a jar. (Original Post) Grasswire2 Yesterday OP
Hope you regain full function of your hand and wrist. brush Yesterday #1
that works on a metal lid on a glass jar, as in pickles. Grasswire2 17 hrs ago #18
Has for me. What it does is break the hold of stuck cap. brush 1 hr ago #25
That is awful... Alephy Yesterday #2
I slip a butter knife under the lid and lever it up to break the vacuum first. tblue37 Yesterday #4
i use a spoon. mopinko Yesterday #10
not a vacuum issue when the jar and lid are both plastic. Grasswire2 17 hrs ago #19
Good luck with the specialist nuxvomica Yesterday #3
My tool drawer in the kitchen Zackzzzz Yesterday #5
I have injured myself trying to open jars Skittles Yesterday #6
Another suggestion: after running hot water over the lid for a while, as has been suggested, then put on rubber gloves raccoon Yesterday #7
I feel your pain synni Yesterday #8
there is a tool you can buy on amazon... druidity33 Yesterday #9
I second this.... IcyPeas 10 hrs ago #22
i cant remember who used to give them away, but mopinko Yesterday #11
I've got one that I hang onto Marthe48 Yesterday #14
I got something I like from Amazon GopherGal 28 min ago #27
A cautionary tale: DON'T GET OLD!!!!! Nittersing Yesterday #12
Hope your hand improves Marthe48 Yesterday #13
I suspect some seals/lids/caps are being put on with automated machinery Niagara 22 hrs ago #15
Go to Harbor Freight beemerphill 18 hrs ago #16
Rubber strap wrench LogDog75 14 hrs ago #21
This simple design always works. justaprogressive 18 hrs ago #17
plastic lid on plastic jar is not the same issue as metal lid on glass jar. Grasswire2 17 hrs ago #20
Yeah jars are getting to be a pain Figarosmom 9 hrs ago #23
My wife taught me how to open a jar with a spoon. Emile 5 hrs ago #24
I am so sorry you're experiencing hand pain. It sucks! Clouds Passing 29 min ago #26
Be careful if it's glass nitpicked 22 min ago #29
Isn't that what visitors are for? nitpicked 25 min ago #28

brush

(60,124 posts)
1. Hope you regain full function of your hand and wrist.
Thu Jun 5, 2025, 02:49 AM
Yesterday

I try two things if I run into that problem. Run the top of the jar under hot water for a while, or bang the jar top on the floor, preferably on a carpeted floor.

They usually work. Even banging the top with the handle of a kitchen knife works to loosen it also.

Grasswire2

(13,829 posts)
18. that works on a metal lid on a glass jar, as in pickles.
Thu Jun 5, 2025, 06:41 PM
17 hrs ago

Doesn't work on a plastic lid on a plastic jar.

brush

(60,124 posts)
25. Has for me. What it does is break the hold of stuck cap.
Fri Jun 6, 2025, 10:33 AM
1 hr ago

And I've been around for a while. If one method doesn't work, try the others.

Alephy

(101 posts)
2. That is awful...
Thu Jun 5, 2025, 02:59 AM
Yesterday

But thank you for posting. I will definitely keep this is mind.

I have had some issues trying to open some bottles lately. The usual suggestions listed above (hot water, banging the top) have not worked. And I am not weak. Luckily, although I tried several times, I have decided to give up before doing the kind of damage you describe. I really feel sorry that you are going through it. What has worked in my case: putting those bottles in the microwave for a minute or so.

Grasswire2

(13,829 posts)
19. not a vacuum issue when the jar and lid are both plastic.
Thu Jun 5, 2025, 06:43 PM
17 hrs ago

But you are right, regarding glass jars with metal lids.

nuxvomica

(13,347 posts)
3. Good luck with the specialist
Thu Jun 5, 2025, 03:03 AM
Yesterday

I keep a strap wrench, the kind used on PVC pipe, in the kitchen for opening jars. It will open any jar.

Zackzzzz

(66 posts)
5. My tool drawer in the kitchen
Thu Jun 5, 2025, 04:35 AM
Yesterday

has a Philips screwdriver and a hammer.
Center the Philips screwdriver in the center of the lid,
hold the metal part with thumb and index finger,
using the little finger to wrap around the lid, [it can slid across the top]
and hit the top of the top of the handle until it pierces the lid.
I put tape over the hole in the lid.
My friend uses a paint can opener, slips it under the lid and twists,
and you can hear it pop. I can't seem to line it up right.

raccoon

(31,863 posts)
7. Another suggestion: after running hot water over the lid for a while, as has been suggested, then put on rubber gloves
Thu Jun 5, 2025, 05:16 AM
Yesterday

and try to open the jar. They help.

Hope that you fully recover. And thanks for sharing, that will help some of us out there.

synni

(359 posts)
8. I feel your pain
Thu Jun 5, 2025, 05:52 AM
Yesterday

I injured both arms doing a similar twisting motion. Both arms were black and blue from wrist to elbow.

30 years later, I still have problems.

I'm so sorry to hear that something like this has happened to you.

druidity33

(6,732 posts)
9. there is a tool you can buy on amazon...
Thu Jun 5, 2025, 06:27 AM
Yesterday

and elsewhere i'm sure. For future uses of course as it's not going to solve your current problem.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07LFJ6RV4/

mopinko

(72,634 posts)
11. i cant remember who used to give them away, but
Thu Jun 5, 2025, 07:31 AM
Yesterday

we had a red rubber disk they called a ‘rubber husband’. they were a common advertising freebie.
but a spoon works well as a lever to break the seal.

but it sure does suck to get old. i have found ways to hurt myself that i wd never have dreamed of when i was young.

Marthe48

(20,746 posts)
14. I've got one that I hang onto
Thu Jun 5, 2025, 08:01 AM
Yesterday

I looked online a couple years ago, looking for tools for my friend. You could get 1 tool or a bundle that included the gripper mat. Some of the tools are multiuse, even a flat key for popping tabs Comes in handy for cat food cans.


GopherGal

(2,482 posts)
27. I got something I like from Amazon
Fri Jun 6, 2025, 11:34 AM
28 min ago

but can't seem to figure out how to share a link without potentially sharing too much about my past transactions. So here goes:

https://www.amazon.com/stores/page/7F6C1B64-D570-4EDD-BFD9-472643060B23?is_byline_deeplink=true&redirect_store_id=FAE23322-21A7-4FDE-8488-328881430B01&ref_=ast_bln&lp_asin=B0BKP8Y8S5&brandname=Otstar]

I only got a jar opener tool for less than 10 bucks, but there are multi-piece sets, too, that can be seen through the "Otstar store".

Nittersing

(7,272 posts)
12. A cautionary tale: DON'T GET OLD!!!!!
Thu Jun 5, 2025, 07:43 AM
Yesterday

Little, everyday things we never had to think about... little, minor injuries that used to heal in a day or two.

I pulled a muscle in my upper arm.... about 4 months ago. Still feels like I pulled it yesterday.

Marthe48

(20,746 posts)
13. Hope your hand improves
Thu Jun 5, 2025, 07:57 AM
Yesterday

What a shame and too many people are injured that way. When I have that much of a problem opening a container, I wonder why on earth they have to be so hard. I hate it when it's a plastic lid on a plastic bottle and the bottle deforms while I try to get the lid off.

I have vice grips for the worst. I have a gripper mat that helps sometimes. I keep a church key bottle opener for lids on glass jars. I put the pointed end under the lip of the jar, reversing the position from if I were using it to punch a hole in a can top, and gently push downward. It breaks the seal. For future reference.

Let us know how you do.

Niagara

(10,704 posts)
15. I suspect some seals/lids/caps are being put on with automated machinery
Thu Jun 5, 2025, 01:38 PM
22 hrs ago

There's a brand of kosher pickles that I like. The lid is impossible to get open even though I run the lid under hot water in the kitchen sink and I attempt to use a rubber jar gripper.

The last time I ran the hot water and used the rubber jar gripper I still couldn't get the lid off. I took a very large kitchen knife and flipped the knife upside down and gently tapped on the lid a few times and went back to use the rubber jar gripper and the lid came right off.


I recently purchased the capped Bic Cristal ink pens. I couldn't get the caps off on any of the 10 count of pens. I literally had to use one blade of the pair of scissors right underneath the cap to push the cap off. I had to do this on all 10 of the ink pens because I couldn't remove the caps. The caps literally went flying across the room but I was able to remove all the caps.


I don't believe that this has anything to do with the fact that we're getting older or weaker.


I'm sending you healing vibes, Grasswire2.

beemerphill

(559 posts)
16. Go to Harbor Freight
Thu Jun 5, 2025, 05:09 PM
18 hrs ago

What you are looking for is "Rubber Strap Wrench Set, 2 Piece" They only cost about $5. They do not work well on small lids but will help a lot on the big ones. We use them and they save a lot of wear and tear on older hands. Hope this helps someone.

LogDog75

(478 posts)
21. Rubber strap wrench
Thu Jun 5, 2025, 09:05 PM
14 hrs ago

It works and won't, doesn't cost much, and you won't strain or injure yourself.

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Grasswire2

(13,829 posts)
20. plastic lid on plastic jar is not the same issue as metal lid on glass jar.
Thu Jun 5, 2025, 06:47 PM
17 hrs ago

Just for clarification.

All the good hints for glass jar w metal lid don't work for plastic jar plastic lid.

Useful hints, they are, for pickle jars and the like.

Figarosmom

(6,057 posts)
23. Yeah jars are getting to be a pain
Fri Jun 6, 2025, 02:57 AM
9 hrs ago

I've now got 4 jar openers all different and not one of them works on all sizes. So I'm constantly having to try two before I get the right one. And when they are not where they are supposed to be and I have to start looking around I get irritated. I've ended up cutting the top off plastic jars when I couldn't find the opener fast enough.

Even bottles of water are getting difficult because they are too small.

Hope your hand improves. When they hurt its hard to ignore. And not being able to use is frustrating.

I used to have corpal tunnel pain from crocheting and from filing when I worked snd the Dr. Gave me a Procare Mason Allen Brace that helped a lot.

https://images.app.goo.gl/fpENHYWXcNhu8XR39

Emile

(34,953 posts)
24. My wife taught me how to open a jar with a spoon.
Fri Jun 6, 2025, 06:58 AM
5 hrs ago

It's simple and it works. Check out this short video.

https://youtube.com/shorts/4HgIKZxmgqE?si=0gCLT0oUANQk4w0D

A kitchen butter knife works too.

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Clouds Passing

(5,021 posts)
26. I am so sorry you're experiencing hand pain. It sucks!
Fri Jun 6, 2025, 11:32 AM
29 min ago

I put a towel on the edge of the counter and tap the lid until it finally loosens up. Sometimes it takes a few tries to loosen the bond. Be easy if it’s a glass jar.

The manufacturers have made it difficult to open jars, boxes, packaging, anything. It’s almost like they’ve created an exercise in intentionally causing frustration, stress, and physical harm in your case.

nitpicked

(1,238 posts)
29. Be careful if it's glass
Fri Jun 6, 2025, 11:39 AM
22 min ago

Don't be like Scottie Scheffler (the golfer) who got cut up with a glass.

nitpicked

(1,238 posts)
28. Isn't that what visitors are for?
Fri Jun 6, 2025, 11:36 AM
25 min ago

Just joking.

Hope the specialist can help resolve the situation.

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