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George McGovern

(7,514 posts)
Thu May 22, 2025, 01:45 AM May 22

". . .when we realize that aging is real. . ." Excerpt From A Firing Offense George Pelecanos

“Somewhere along the line I became a salesman, worked on commission as I put myself through college, cut my hair, was promoted into management, got married and divorced, and generally lost the notion that life was a series of adventures and opportunities waiting to happen. One day a stockboy in one of the stores called me “sir,” and I was alarmed by that panicky, universal moment when we realize that aging is real and for all of us, not just for watery-eyed relatives and quiet old men on the bus.”

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". . .when we realize that aging is real. . ." Excerpt From A Firing Offense George Pelecanos (Original Post) George McGovern May 22 OP
I was called MA'AM when I was 21 and a sergeant in the Air Force, by new airmen Skittles May 22 #1
This message was self-deleted by its author George McGovern May 22 #2
My wife's 73. She still doesn't like to be called MA'AM. Don't people realize how they can affect our senses of being? George McGovern May 22 #3
When one goes from being called "Miss" to being called "Ma'am", we women check our LoisB May 22 #5
At first reading of your reply Lois I thought you meant "we women check out" of the scene and walk away. I was wrong. George McGovern May 22 #6
We do that too. LoisB May 22 #16
I haven't been called that lately as a geezer Skittles May 22 #8
Another context for geezer: "An elderly person, especially one with a long-standing presence or experience." George McGovern May 22 #18
I do find my concept as ELDERLY has very much changed Skittles May 22 #19
I once told my favorite barista, who is Latino, Demobrat May 22 #4
Of course his tips went up, silly boy. Good you set him right! Thanks Demobrat (love your user name)! -- Allan George McGovern May 22 #7
Yep. BurnDoubt May 22 #9
No Shit Indeed BurnDoubt! Thanks! George McGovern May 22 #12
Yeah Figarosmom May 22 #10
Agreed Figarosmom! Thanks! -- Allan George McGovern May 22 #13
Without old people there wold be no young people. multigraincracker May 22 #11
Profound statement multigraincracker. Thank You! -- Allan George McGovern May 22 #14
Boomer Proud, and I got to see all of great bands live. multigraincracker May 22 #15
That's a great motto "Boomer Proud"! There were lotsa great bands for sure! Thanks multigraincracker! George McGovern May 22 #17

Skittles

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1. I was called MA'AM when I was 21 and a sergeant in the Air Force, by new airmen
Thu May 22, 2025, 02:22 AM
May 22

it always startled me

Response to Skittles (Reply #1)

George McGovern

(7,514 posts)
3. My wife's 73. She still doesn't like to be called MA'AM. Don't people realize how they can affect our senses of being?
Thu May 22, 2025, 02:41 AM
May 22

Thanks Skittles

LoisB

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5. When one goes from being called "Miss" to being called "Ma'am", we women check our
Thu May 22, 2025, 03:01 AM
May 22

gray hair and wrinkles.

George McGovern

(7,514 posts)
6. At first reading of your reply Lois I thought you meant "we women check out" of the scene and walk away. I was wrong.
Thu May 22, 2025, 03:08 AM
May 22

Skittles

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8. I haven't been called that lately as a geezer
Thu May 22, 2025, 03:42 AM
May 22

I wouldn't care for it but I wouldn't bite their head off

George McGovern

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18. Another context for geezer: "An elderly person, especially one with a long-standing presence or experience."
Thu May 22, 2025, 12:50 PM
May 22

Thank You Skittles!

Skittles

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19. I do find my concept as ELDERLY has very much changed
Thu May 22, 2025, 03:21 PM
May 22

I know it is a cliche but it really isn't about the number, and more about the health and welfare of a person.....I still swim across lakes for fun; I embrace my geezer status!

Demobrat

(10,163 posts)
4. I once told my favorite barista, who is Latino,
Thu May 22, 2025, 02:56 AM
May 22

not to call me, or any female customer, ma’am, because it makes us feel old. I told him to say miss instead. He later told me his tips went up.

George McGovern

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7. Of course his tips went up, silly boy. Good you set him right! Thanks Demobrat (love your user name)! -- Allan
Thu May 22, 2025, 03:10 AM
May 22

BurnDoubt

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9. Yep.
Thu May 22, 2025, 03:42 AM
May 22

From runnin' with the big dogs to watchin' 'em from the porch.
Enjoy your body while it still works.
No Shit!

George McGovern

(7,514 posts)
17. That's a great motto "Boomer Proud"! There were lotsa great bands for sure! Thanks multigraincracker!
Thu May 22, 2025, 10:42 AM
May 22
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