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Shambala

(243 posts)
Sun May 18, 2025, 11:19 AM May 2025

Fork etiquette question

I hope this is the right forum for this question but it's been bugging me since lunch yesterday.

When you have a salad as an entree (nicoise in my case yesterday), do you use the salad fork or the entree fork? Neither the waitress nor her co-workers knew and a quick internet search didn't help either.

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Fork etiquette question (Original Post) Shambala May 2025 OP
Try Emily Historic NY May 2025 #1
Excellent tip Bernardo de La Paz May 2025 #4
TIL there is a Salad Knife JoseBalow May 2025 #13
Still a salad... 2naSalit May 2025 #2
Yet it was also an entree Shambala May 2025 #5
Salad fork is designed for salad Bobstandard May 2025 #9
Salad entrees are large enough to benefit from the main course fork if they are the main course Bernardo de La Paz May 2025 #3
Sounds like the answer is Shambala May 2025 #6
Ideally, the appetizer forks are removed after that course, leaving only the entree fork, so, no confusion unblock May 2025 #7
Match the fork to the food splat May 2025 #8
That acutally crossed my mind Shambala May 2025 #11
I would say feed it to the rabbit..... lastlib May 2025 #10
I like your thinking Shambala May 2025 #12
Technically, the wait staff should have removed the extra fork. yardwork May 2025 #14
That's a good point. Shambala May 2025 #15
my late mom told me eat in , out . AllaN01Bear May 2025 #16

Bernardo de La Paz

(60,320 posts)
4. Excellent tip
Sun May 18, 2025, 11:34 AM
May 2025

This setting is not in place in practice as illustrated even when all the utensils are used. In best service, some utensils arrive with their dish. Illustration from the given link, first sub-link:


Shambala

(243 posts)
5. Yet it was also an entree
Sun May 18, 2025, 11:49 AM
May 2025

And to be honest I switched from salad fork to entree fork about half way through my meal just because the question was bugging me

Bernardo de La Paz

(60,320 posts)
3. Salad entrees are large enough to benefit from the main course fork if they are the main course
Sun May 18, 2025, 11:27 AM
May 2025

Regardless of size, if a salad is not the main course then don't use the entree fork. Reserve the "entree fork" for the main course, whatever it might be.

In particular, side salads / appetizer salads should be cut or torn small enough in the kitchen so they can be eaten with a fork and no knife.

Ideally there is an appetizer fork, a main course fork, and a desert fork at the place setting.

Shambala

(243 posts)
6. Sounds like the answer is
Sun May 18, 2025, 11:53 AM
May 2025

if it's an appetizer salad, then salad fork. If it's an entree salad, use the entree fork. Makes sense, thanks.

unblock

(55,859 posts)
7. Ideally, the appetizer forks are removed after that course, leaving only the entree fork, so, no confusion
Sun May 18, 2025, 12:05 PM
May 2025

splat

(2,355 posts)
8. Match the fork to the food
Sun May 18, 2025, 12:38 PM
May 2025

Salad forks have shorter tines. You might be sticking an entree fork into a thick filet, but unless the salad contains thick chunks of tomatoes, too thick for the salad tines to pierce fully, use the salad fork. If necessary use or switch to the longer tines for thick morsels.

Simple and practical, and how etiquette evolved.

Shambala

(243 posts)
11. That acutally crossed my mind
Sun May 18, 2025, 01:08 PM
May 2025

This is getting too deep into my thought process but was thinking that if I had ordered a steak salad I would have immediately grabbed the entree fork But since my nicoise had thin slices of tuna I started using salad fork.

lastlib

(27,420 posts)
10. I would say feed it to the rabbit.....
Sun May 18, 2025, 01:04 PM
May 2025

...then eat the rabbit.

But then, I'm a carnivore--I didn't claw to the top of the food chain to eat lettuce....... YMMV.

yardwork

(68,885 posts)
14. Technically, the wait staff should have removed the extra fork.
Sun May 18, 2025, 01:48 PM
May 2025

Since your meal was one course, the salad fork should have been removed when you ordered salad as your one course.

But nobody cares about these early 20th century rules that were invented by selfish rich people who wanted to be mean to others!

Use the fork you like.

Shambala

(243 posts)
15. That's a good point.
Sun May 18, 2025, 02:18 PM
May 2025

I remember that being done fir me in higher end restaurants and didn't think twice about it. Yesterday's restaurant was a nice college town restaurant but not super fancy though everyone was dressed up for graduations.

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