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Permanut

(7,335 posts)
Tue Apr 22, 2025, 05:11 PM Apr 2025

Just got a call from the surgeon that my wife of 37 years did well with hip replacement surgery..

Sharing that with you guys because:

A. We can use all the good news we can get;

and

B, I'm sitting here by myself in the hospital cafe eating Cheetos by myself.

Hope she's good for another 37 years; I'll check the warranty.

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Just got a call from the surgeon that my wife of 37 years did well with hip replacement surgery.. (Original Post) Permanut Apr 2025 OP
That's great! Here's to another 37! Scrivener7 Apr 2025 #1
Hey, I'll be 125, but who's counting? Permanut Apr 2025 #4
Long may you reign! Scrivener7 Apr 2025 #12
YAHOO! MIButterfly Apr 2025 #2
Thanks MIButterfly, going to see her in recovery right now. Permanut Apr 2025 #5
Ty for the great news! SheltieLover Apr 2025 #3
Thanks, SheltieLover, I'm going to deliver them right now in the recovery room. Permanut Apr 2025 #6
Glad to hear good news! Karadeniz Apr 2025 #7
Thanks Karadeniz! Permanut Apr 2025 #48
That is great news. LoisB Apr 2025 #8
I was sure glad to get that call from the doc! Permanut Apr 2025 #49
Glad to hear that. riversedge Apr 2025 #9
Hey, even better.. Permanut Apr 2025 #50
Thanks for sharing this happy report! Tanuki Apr 2025 #10
Thanks Tanuki, she's back home and in recovery mode. Permanut Apr 2025 #51
Woo Hoo!!!! NewLarry Apr 2025 #11
Ya know what, that's exactly what I'm going to do.. Permanut Apr 2025 #52
Hip replacements have come a long way Figarosmom Apr 2025 #13
Wow, that's amazing. It seems they recommend PT for everything these days. walkingman Apr 2025 #15
It depends on how you do w/o it. Figarosmom Apr 2025 #18
Nothing, including shoulder replacement, is as bad as a knee soldierant Apr 2025 #122
Boy, ya got that right. Mind boggling that it can be done. Permanut Apr 2025 #55
Yahoo...she will be up and about in no time. Great news! walkingman Apr 2025 #14
She's done a few steps at home with the walker.. Permanut Apr 2025 #56
I've had both mine done - R in 2013 and L in 2021. 3catwoman3 Apr 2025 #16
Thanks 3catwoan3.. Permanut Apr 2025 #57
Woohoo iluvtennis Apr 2025 #17
So happy for you and your wife! senseandsensibility Apr 2025 #19
Okay, this is good.. Permanut Apr 2025 #58
snicker! niyad Apr 2025 #87
Sounds like she has your sense of humor senseandsensibility Apr 2025 #111
Good news. And now, you can breathe. Speedy healing to your wife. jrthin Apr 2025 #20
Thanks jrthin.. Permanut Apr 2025 #59
Wonderful! rubbersole Apr 2025 #21
Now that's a home remedy I can get behind! Permanut Apr 2025 #60
Excellent news! leftieNanner Apr 2025 #22
Excellent advice . Permanut Apr 2025 #61
Yeah! Thank you for sharing the good news. Wishing her a speedy recovery. nt Phoenix61 Apr 2025 #23
Thanks Phoenix61! Permanut Apr 2025 #62
Great! Encourage her to do all the physical therapy. surfered Apr 2025 #24
I'm on it! Permanut Apr 2025 #63
Thank you for sharing the good news about your wife's surgery, Permanut. wordstroken Apr 2025 #25
Thanks, wordstroken, your words made me smile. Permanut Apr 2025 #64
THAnks for sharing happy news! Amaryllis Apr 2025 #26
Hey, had to tell my DU family! Permanut Apr 2025 #65
I had mine done 20 years ago. It's still going strong. She will be happy with it. Srkdqltr Apr 2025 #27
I'm gonna tell her about your experience . Permanut Apr 2025 #67
Excellent News! Now you both can take a deep breath. Fla Dem Apr 2025 #28
Zackly! That's what we're doing right now Permanut Apr 2025 #68
Great news! gademocrat7 Apr 2025 #29
Thanks, gademocrat7! Permanut Apr 2025 #69
237 years Tetrachloride Apr 2025 #30
Warranty expires in the year 2262! Permanut Apr 2025 #70
I had one too... joanbarnes Apr 2025 #31
She does have some pain now but manageable.. Permanut Apr 2025 #71
That's fantastic 👍 excellent news TommieMommy Apr 2025 #32
Hey we need that kind of news these days. Permanut Apr 2025 #72
Happy for both of you malaise Apr 2025 #33
Thanks malaise! Permanut Apr 2025 #73
good to hear! OldSWODog Apr 2025 #34
I hear ya, she's motivated.. Permanut Apr 2025 #74
Sending healing vibes to your wife, and a big hug to you! HeartsCanHope Apr 2025 #35
Vibes and hugs received; smiles coming back at ya. Permanut Apr 2025 #75
Yay!! Andy Canuck Apr 2025 #36
Thanks Andy Canuck.. Permanut Apr 2025 #95
The replacements last a good long time Nasruddin Apr 2025 #37
Oh jeez you're right.. Permanut Apr 2025 #76
Great to hear. Now she'll be able to kick your @$$ all over the house. She's probably looking forward to that. ... aggiesal Apr 2025 #38
Hey, she's the brains of this household.. Permanut Apr 2025 #80
I am so happy for you both! NCgayguy Apr 2025 #39
Thanks NCgayguy! Permanut Apr 2025 #102
Great news! 😃 ShazzieB Apr 2025 #40
All extremities crossed! niyad Apr 2025 #42
niyad the human pretzel! Permanut Apr 2025 #83
If it helps! niyad Apr 2025 #86
Sending vibes for swift and complete healing, and energy and love niyad Apr 2025 #41
No, back home now . Permanut Apr 2025 #84
Great news! Here's to a Full Recovery on the quicker side! electric_blue68 Apr 2025 #43
Spoken like a true veteran and words to the wise . Permanut Apr 2025 #85
YW 👍 electric_blue68 Apr 2025 #93
Move Move Move LQ_Dem Apr 2025 #44
Right hip for her as well.. Permanut Apr 2025 #94
Great news! Hope22 Apr 2025 #45
Thank you Hope22! Permanut Apr 2025 #96
What Wonderful news. Thank you for sharing. You should know you caused me to spray my tea dai13sy Apr 2025 #46
Hey, glad to add something to your day! Permanut Apr 2025 #82
Good deal, Permanut! (n/t) OldBaldy1701E Apr 2025 #47
Thanks OldBaldy! Permanut Apr 2025 #97
That's wonderful news... glad to hear!! InAbLuEsTaTe Apr 2025 #53
It really is, she was in pain before and it was getting worse. Permanut Apr 2025 #98
Hopefully that's in the past now. calimary Apr 2025 #109
Amen to that. Permanut Apr 2025 #116
I hope she's up and running soon enough! Bluethroughu Apr 2025 #54
Thanks, Bluethroughu.. Permanut Apr 2025 #81
"" AllaN01Bear Apr 2025 #66
Now that right there is like a standing O on steroids. Permanut Apr 2025 #77
Hip Replacement Rehab webhead usa Apr 2025 #78
Roger that.. Permanut Apr 2025 #79
Welcome to DU LetMyPeopleVote Apr 2025 #105
Good news! Happy healing 💚 Clouds Passing Apr 2025 #88
Thank you Clouds Passing! Permanut Apr 2025 #99
Excellent news! Give my best wishes for a speedy and fully recovery to your wife please! lark Apr 2025 #89
Thanks lark, I will your message to her when she wakes up. Permanut Apr 2025 #100
That's wonderful! Erda Apr 2025 #90
Thanks Erda! Permanut Apr 2025 #101
Oh that is wonderful!!!! make a gazillion plans for your next 37 years Peacetrain Apr 2025 #91
Thank you Peacetrain.. Permanut Apr 2025 #103
Wonderful news! I had a hip replacement just over a year ago. femmedem Apr 2025 #92
Thanks femmedem.. Permanut Apr 2025 #104
Two things affect how long the recovery will be. femmedem Apr 2025 #107
Good info, thanks - I'll check with her. Permanut Apr 2025 #115
Good news indeed! Dorothy V Apr 2025 #127
Won't be long before she puts this on the record player: spooky3 Apr 2025 #106
OMG this is hilarious.. Permanut Apr 2025 #117
Good news! FemDemERA Apr 2025 #108
Thank you FemDemERA. Permanut Apr 2025 #121
Great news!!! ailsagirl Apr 2025 #110
Fantastic Duncanpup Apr 2025 #112
It really is . Permanut Apr 2025 #120
Still alive and kicking, eh? Ford_Prefect Apr 2025 #113
Not kicking very hard today . Permanut Apr 2025 #119
Hip replacement is truly an amazing surgery. I guarantee she'll feel a million per cent better. Vinca Apr 2025 #114
Amazing is exactly the right word.. Permanut Apr 2025 #118
Sounds like you made a good investment. 37 years Emile Apr 2025 #123
I married up.. Permanut Apr 2025 #124
Happiness shared is doubled IbogaProject Apr 2025 #125
It has been my good fortune to share both with my best friend. Permanut Apr 2025 #128
Great news, treat yourself to anything you want. dem4decades Apr 2025 #126
Hey, I'm in! Permanut Apr 2025 #129

MIButterfly

(877 posts)
2. YAHOO!
Tue Apr 22, 2025, 05:21 PM
Apr 2025

That is good news. Here's to a swift recovery. I wish your wife all the best. Keep us posted.

Tanuki

(15,939 posts)
10. Thanks for sharing this happy report!
Tue Apr 22, 2025, 05:52 PM
Apr 2025

Best wishes for her full and speedy recovery, and many more blessed and joyous years together!

🥰🌷

Permanut

(7,335 posts)
51. Thanks Tanuki, she's back home and in recovery mode.
Tue Apr 22, 2025, 11:44 PM
Apr 2025

The whole thing is amazing to me.

NewLarry

(93 posts)
11. Woo Hoo!!!!
Tue Apr 22, 2025, 05:56 PM
Apr 2025

All the best to both of y'all, and hopes for a speedy and complete recovery.

Tell her to put on her dancing shoes, and take her out!

Permanut

(7,335 posts)
52. Ya know what, that's exactly what I'm going to do..
Tue Apr 22, 2025, 11:47 PM
Apr 2025

She should be ready in a few months, say August.

Figarosmom

(7,047 posts)
13. Hip replacements have come a long way
Tue Apr 22, 2025, 06:00 PM
Apr 2025

My sister broke her hip and had a replacement. She limped for a while but didn't even have to take therapy.

Figarosmom

(7,047 posts)
18. It depends on how you do w/o it.
Tue Apr 22, 2025, 06:10 PM
Apr 2025

My daughter is a physical therapist and she says hip replacements are not as bad as knee replacements. Use a cane or walker until you are comfortable walking without. Be mindful of every step and where you are placing your foot as you walk.

soldierant

(8,748 posts)
122. Nothing, including shoulder replacement, is as bad as a knee
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 04:55 PM
Apr 2025

replacement. I was told that by a PA at the orthopedic clinic which serves the Olympic Training Center when I was diagnosed with osteoarthritis in the left knee.

3catwoman3

(27,192 posts)
16. I've had both mine done - R in 2013 and L in 2021.
Tue Apr 22, 2025, 06:04 PM
Apr 2025

2 night hospital stay the first time. Home same afternoon and walking up the stairs unassisted with the second one - yikes!

Wishing your sweetheart an uneventful recovery.

leftieNanner

(16,010 posts)
22. Excellent news!
Tue Apr 22, 2025, 06:16 PM
Apr 2025

That means that you are her recovery coach. I did that for my husband twice. Be fierce with the exercises and she will get strong and able quickly.

Permanut

(7,335 posts)
61. Excellent advice .
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 12:50 AM
Apr 2025

She wants to live life at a hundred miles an hour. I may have to put in some speed bumps.

wordstroken

(1,251 posts)
25. Thank you for sharing the good news about your wife's surgery, Permanut.
Tue Apr 22, 2025, 06:33 PM
Apr 2025

You are not alone. Your DU familiar is right there beside you cheering you on.

Sending love and hugs to you both.


🦋 wordstroken

Permanut

(7,335 posts)
67. I'm gonna tell her about your experience .
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 01:25 AM
Apr 2025

She'll be glad to hear your experience. Okay, just told her. Very reassuring, Srkdqltr.

Permanut

(7,335 posts)
71. She does have some pain now but manageable..
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 02:02 AM
Apr 2025

But it hasn't been even 24 hours yet. She will be very glad to hear your experience.

OldSWODog

(109 posts)
34. good to hear!
Tue Apr 22, 2025, 06:56 PM
Apr 2025

P, greetings. You're correct: good news (even from others) is enjoyed. I trust the rehab goes well; your bride will likely consider the PTs to be Torquemada understudies but, once completed, may she enjoy a newly functional joint. Cheers, OSD

Permanut

(7,335 posts)
95. Thanks Andy Canuck..
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 12:38 PM
Apr 2025

I'm blown away by your response and all the good wishes on this thread. You have truly helped with her healing.

aggiesal

(10,188 posts)
38. Great to hear. Now she'll be able to kick your @$$ all over the house. She's probably looking forward to that. ...
Tue Apr 22, 2025, 07:30 PM
Apr 2025

Just teasing.
Again, good to hear.

Permanut

(7,335 posts)
80. Hey, she's the brains of this household..
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 02:56 AM
Apr 2025

I'm just the muscle. I'm not gonna mess with that

ShazzieB

(21,179 posts)
40. Great news! 😃
Tue Apr 22, 2025, 07:46 PM
Apr 2025

Happy to hear it! I hope your wife has a fast and smooth recovery!

I've been nudging my husband to look into having a hip replaced. Not sure it would be the right choice for his situation, but I'm trying to get him to at least see an orthopedist to find out. Wish us luck, lol.

niyad

(125,325 posts)
41. Sending vibes for swift and complete healing, and energy and love
Tue Apr 22, 2025, 08:10 PM
Apr 2025

for both of you. Your DU family is here for you, lean as hard as you neeed.

Cheetos??? Could you go down to the cafeteria, and at least get something more closely resembling actual food? Or have sonething delivered? Will you be staying there while?

Permanut

(7,335 posts)
84. No, back home now .
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 03:29 AM
Apr 2025

but the selection was nothing to brag about. Cheese pizza that looks like a doormat, you know the drill.

Thank you for your kind words, makes this challenge a little lighter.

electric_blue68

(22,454 posts)
43. Great news! Here's to a Full Recovery on the quicker side!
Tue Apr 22, 2025, 08:37 PM
Apr 2025

From my 2 experiences w PT
•left shoulder [ripped rotators] in my late 30's (and Im a lefty)
•tri-frsctured right ankle [got metal] in late 50's

If she does her PT about 96% of the time she should have excellent results. A little slack off allowed, but that's it.

Good Luck!
)))healing✨️vibes(((

LQ_Dem

(5 posts)
44. Move Move Move
Tue Apr 22, 2025, 09:04 PM
Apr 2025

Had my right hip replaced four years ago. Use a walker for a few days. Then go to a cane. Then quickly toss it and start walking and ASAP bicycling. I rewarded myself by growing a beard. Don't stop...this is a long-term recovery. Hardest part was getting my golf swing back. Just didn't feel right for the longest time. I eventually changed my swing (for the better) and am now on track.

Permanut

(7,335 posts)
94. Right hip for her as well..
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 12:27 PM
Apr 2025

I'm going to read your reply directly to her, it's like you know her. She's really just getting started on her recovery, but already frustrated about toddling around the house with the walker. She will be delighted with just the idea of using a cane instead.

We've spent a lot of time on the regular bikes; my brilliant idea about that is to get her an electric bike, maybe get her out on the road faster. I'm not telling her that part, her birthday is next week.

Permanut

(7,335 posts)
81. Thanks, Bluethroughu..
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 03:02 AM
Apr 2025

She has enjoyed running just recreationally, so I'm hoping a long with you. Looks excellent, for her to get back to it

webhead usa

(2 posts)
78. Hip Replacement Rehab
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 02:30 AM
Apr 2025

I had my surgery 9 years ago. No problems.

Make certain your wife does the rehab exercises.

lark

(25,257 posts)
89. Excellent news! Give my best wishes for a speedy and fully recovery to your wife please!
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 10:04 AM
Apr 2025

Hope I do as well with my upcoming shoulder surgery.

Permanut

(7,335 posts)
100. Thanks lark, I will your message to her when she wakes up.
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 12:57 PM
Apr 2025

It's mind boggling to me as a non medical person that these joints can be replaced.

Best wishes back at ya for your upcoming surgery; let us know results! Just a side question about right or left, dominant side?

Peacetrain

(24,126 posts)
91. Oh that is wonderful!!!! make a gazillion plans for your next 37 years
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 10:33 AM
Apr 2025

My husband and I were married 37 years when I had a knee replacement.. and we did lots and lots of planning... and took those awesome trips (and are planning more) it seems like yesterday.. time flies.. Best wishes to your wife .

Permanut

(7,335 posts)
103. Thank you Peacetrain..
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 01:06 PM
Apr 2025

We want to follow in your footsteps; number one on her bucket list is Paris, and we will be able to do that now.

femmedem

(8,522 posts)
92. Wonderful news! I had a hip replacement just over a year ago.
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 11:47 AM
Apr 2025

The recovery took a while, but now I feel as if there was never anything wrong. It sure feels great to be able to walk all over town again without limping.

Permanut

(7,335 posts)
104. Thanks femmedem..
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 01:10 PM
Apr 2025

She will be delighted to hear your experience. She has the same question you probably had, about how long the recovery would take. Your perspective is great as someone who's been there.

femmedem

(8,522 posts)
107. Two things affect how long the recovery will be.
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 01:43 PM
Apr 2025

First, did the surgeon use the anterior or posterior approach? Mine used the posterior approach, partly because of a congenital hip abnormality and partly because it's what he's more experienced at. This approach slows the recovery time, but the outcome ends up being just as good.

Second, does she have any conditions that would make her recovery slower than usual?

I know one person who had the anterior approach who was walking on the beach with no walking aids within a few days. It took me over a month to ditch the cane, but again, I have an abnormality that slowed my recovery.

However long it takes, she'll be happy she had it done!

Permanut

(7,335 posts)
115. Good info, thanks - I'll check with her.
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 04:21 PM
Apr 2025

No pre existing conditions, and health generally good.

Permanut

(7,335 posts)
121. Thank you FemDemERA.
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 04:36 PM
Apr 2025

She's off to a good start. We have that kind of house where you can loop around through the kitchen, dining, living room and hall back to where you started, so she's doing laps (well, only one so far).

Vinca

(52,408 posts)
114. Hip replacement is truly an amazing surgery. I guarantee she'll feel a million per cent better.
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 03:59 PM
Apr 2025

dem4decades

(12,985 posts)
126. Great news, treat yourself to anything you want.
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 09:02 PM
Apr 2025

And thanks, we here can use all the good news we can get.

Permanut

(7,335 posts)
129. Hey, I'm in!
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 09:25 PM
Apr 2025

It has been recommended that my wife increase her protein intake during her recuperation.

So, even though we don't eat much beef, we decided that tonight we're going with the Applebee's $9.99 burger special.

Of course, I'm going for the bacon cheese version because, oh, reasons.

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