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eppur_se_muova

(40,116 posts)
Fri Sep 26, 2025, 06:22 PM Friday

Are Some People Addicted to Revenge? (Nautilus)

By Catherine Offord September 18, 2025

James Kimmel remembers the first time his desire for revenge nearly ruined his life. After years of bullying him, a group of kids in his neighborhood blew up the mailbox at his home in rural Pennsylvania and shot his family’s dog. Taking a gun and following them into the night, the teenaged Kimmel intended to pull the trigger—but stopped himself just in time.

Kimmel uses this story to open his new book, The Science of Revenge: Understanding the World’s Deadliest Addiction—and How to Overcome It. In it, Kimmel, now a lawyer and an assistant clinical professor of psychiatry at Yale School of Medicine, describes how he went from this near-act of devastating violence to collaborating with neuroscientists to understand what drives us to punish people who hurt us.

He argues that revenge is addictive—not just figuratively speaking, but in a biological sense, much like alcohol and other drugs. His book traces a growing scientific literature indicating that even contemplating retribution against the people we think have wronged us taps into the brain’s reward circuitry. The result is a temporary buzz, followed by a comedown that leaves the brain wanting more.

In the view of Kimmel and some of his collaborators, this circuitry can push some people into a spiral of increasingly vengeful acts, despite negative consequences for them and the people around them. While “revenge addiction” isn’t a medically recognized term, Kimmel has suggested the condition may have affected numerous historical and current political figures, including U.S. President Donald Trump.
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more: https://nautil.us/are-some-people-addicted-to-revenge-1238041/



Turnip will **NEVER** agree to any kind of psychological counseling, so there's probably no hope of relief in his case.

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Are Some People Addicted to Revenge? (Nautilus) (Original Post) eppur_se_muova Friday OP
Narcissists like Trump never get into counseling. Irish_Dem Friday #1
To a narcissist, counseling is like allowing oneself to be murdered. Turbineguy Friday #3
They think they are the most special, brilliant, talented people in the world. Irish_Dem Friday #4
Isn't this intuitively obvious? markodochartaigh Friday #2
James Kimmel, Jr., JD, is not Jimmy Kimmel. . . . . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Friday #5
Hapax or consensus? Or the opinion of a PI and acolytes? Igel Friday #6
I'd never in a million years NJCher Saturday #7

Irish_Dem

(75,383 posts)
1. Narcissists like Trump never get into counseling.
Fri Sep 26, 2025, 06:24 PM
Friday

But everyone around them has to seek ongoing therapy to cope.

Irish_Dem

(75,383 posts)
4. They think they are the most special, brilliant, talented people in the world.
Fri Sep 26, 2025, 06:33 PM
Friday

Any feedback to the contrary infuriates them.
They don't believe it.

So yes therapy is like murdering their false persona.

Igel

(37,124 posts)
6. Hapax or consensus? Or the opinion of a PI and acolytes?
Fri Sep 26, 2025, 07:57 PM
Friday

Inquiring minds and all that.

Still, lone teams pursuing a PI's personal history to exculpate one's self are never wrong.

I'm trained a Slavist. Those who had Roman Jakobson as Doktorvater or grandfather all repeated that one's personal history should not dictate one's research or agenda. Not published, but many Jakobson sayings (and doings) were not. This is anathema to many today, who dwell on their personal history as probative and definitive on all for all time. Still, I'm trained as a Slavist. (And the spelling indicates country of training.)

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