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erronis

(24,254 posts)
Fri Apr 24, 2026, 07:06 PM Apr 24

'What the hell do you say?': elder son of Rob Reiner speaks out on parents' murders

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2026/apr/24/rob-reiner-son-jake

Jake Reiner calls parents 'center' of his life and says brother being at 'center' of loss is 'almost too impossible to process'


From left, Jake Reiner, Romy Reiner, Rob Reiner and Michele Reiner in Los Angeles, California, on 15 January 2024. Photograph: Gilbert Flores/Variety/Getty Images


The elder son of beloved director Rob Reiner and his wife, Michele Reiner, eulogized his parents, who were "the center" of his life, in a Substack essay published Friday, four months after the pair were found stabbed to death in their Los Angeles home.

Nick Reiner, the couple's younger son, who long struggled with drug addiction and mental illness, has been charged with two counts of first-degree murder in connection to their deaths, to which he has pleaded not guilty.

"What the hell do you say to someone who is living through this reality?" Jack Reiner wrote in his essay, his first public comment on his parents' deaths.

"We lost more than half of our family that night in the most violent way imaginable. Sure, any loss of a parent is devastating, but nothing compares to losing both of them at the same time and, on top of that, having your brother be at the center of it. It's almost too impossible to process."

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'What the hell do you say?': elder son of Rob Reiner speaks out on parents' murders (Original Post) erronis Apr 24 OP
I can't imagine edhopper Apr 24 #1
I think so many fans who loved him (and by extension his beloved wife) are having a lot of hlthe2b Apr 24 #2
These are the real tragedies of life; no clean easy resolutions. erronis Apr 24 #3
TY for this, erronis . 💔 Cha Apr 24 #4
Cha, thanks. It takes real courage to open up the pain. erronis Apr 24 #6
That's for sure. How do you process that?😔 Figarosmom Apr 24 #5
This is such an awful nightmare for Jake and Romy Reiner FakeNoose Apr 24 #7
And Rob's daughter Tracy. dflprincess Apr 24 #8
That made me cry UpInArms Apr 24 #9
I'm still having a hard time just BigmanPigman Apr 24 #10
I just saw him in The Rockford Files progressoid Saturday #12
I know, they are everywhere you look. BigmanPigman Saturday #13
.. MustLoveBeagles Apr 24 #11

hlthe2b

(114,388 posts)
2. I think so many fans who loved him (and by extension his beloved wife) are having a lot of
Fri Apr 24, 2026, 07:11 PM
Apr 24

trouble processing and accepting this--I know I am.

So, I cannot even begin to comprehend how the family can do so. This is such an unimaginably cruel tragedy. I wish I had answers. I can only hope that they can somehow find peace in their lives.

erronis

(24,254 posts)
3. These are the real tragedies of life; no clean easy resolutions.
Fri Apr 24, 2026, 07:17 PM
Apr 24

These are probably the vast majority of what happens to us. They don't make 90 minute movies or simple stories.

I've been having discussions with friends about why they like the books or TV serials that start with a problem and end with a solution. (Until the next episode.)

Cha

(320,110 posts)
4. TY for this, erronis . 💔
Fri Apr 24, 2026, 07:36 PM
Apr 24

It's been unfathomable to process, on a smaller scale than Jake, Romy, and all their friends and family, of course.

But still crave news on how they are possibly bearing this. I imagine it helps to speak out about it, and so glad Jake did.

💙💔☮️🌻🕯️🕊️💜

So Nick is pleading not guilty.

erronis

(24,254 posts)
6. Cha, thanks. It takes real courage to open up the pain.
Fri Apr 24, 2026, 08:21 PM
Apr 24

Unfortunately, for any famous people, the prying paparazzi will dig around anyway.

FakeNoose

(42,093 posts)
7. This is such an awful nightmare for Jake and Romy Reiner
Fri Apr 24, 2026, 09:00 PM
Apr 24

I'm sure they love their brother, but how can they ever accept this horrible loss? How can they ever forgive him?
None of their lives will ever be the same.

BigmanPigman

(55,450 posts)
10. I'm still having a hard time just
Fri Apr 24, 2026, 10:33 PM
Apr 24

re-watching anything related to Carl and/or Rob (tv shows and films that they were either acting in or producing/directing in). I can only imagine what his family is suffering through and they will be until their last day on earth. Horrific.

progressoid

(53,318 posts)
12. I just saw him in The Rockford Files
Sat Apr 25, 2026, 12:52 AM
Saturday

At first I was pleasantly surprised to see him and then the sobering realization of recent events.

https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0688079/?ref_=mv_close

BigmanPigman

(55,450 posts)
13. I know, they are everywhere you look.
Sat Apr 25, 2026, 01:39 AM
Saturday

Last week even old Johnny Carson and Dick Van Dyke reruns made me sad. I was thinking that I was glad Carl died a few years before Rob did, he would have been devastated.

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