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Where was Michelle Obama? (Original Post) question everything Saturday OP
Wherever she wanted to be. marybourg Saturday #1
Perfect answer. Quiet Em Saturday #7
But her spouse is still in the public eye and acknowledged Jackson's activism as paving the road to his question everything Saturday #11
Maybe you should write her a letter and tell her that. marybourg Saturday #12
She has no obligation to do that. Quiet Em Saturday #14
Acknowledging the man who paved the way for her to be where she is now is not "political life." question everything Saturday #16
She never asked for and didn't want this "political life" Quiet Em Saturday #18
She paved her own way obamanut2012 Saturday #31
Wow, telling others in the private sector what they should do in their spare time. Ferrets are Cool Saturday #27
Are you serious? yardwork Saturday #30
Michelle Obama Skips Jesse Jackson's Funeral Despite Facing Backlash for Missing Major Events quaint Saturday #2
Thank you. H2O Man Saturday #3
No problem, although I thought marybourg quite succinct. quaint Saturday #5
Likewise! H2O Man Saturday #10
Bravo to her. NewHendoLib Saturday #4
Good on her. Don't play their game. Solly Mack Saturday #6
She would not have been where she is now were it not for Jackson as her spouse acknowledged. question everything Saturday #13
Did she disagree with her spouse ? JI7 Saturday #23
Her husband you mean JustAnotherGen Saturday #26
I understand the power to "say no" Skittles Saturday #28
AOL is just the news aggregator for that article. The article is from OK! Magazine, a British-based weekly magazine that Celerity Yesterday #42
Thank you. quaint 21 hrs ago #45
here is the link Celerity 21 hrs ago #46
Maybe she's not really into these events fujiyamasan Saturday #8
I thought she would've been there Bookreadingliberal53 Saturday #9
Ah didn't know that fujiyamasan Saturday #15
Acknowledging the man who paved the way for her current luxurious life is not "these events." question everything Saturday #17
The man, Barack Obama, is quite comfortable with his wife living her life and making her own decisions. Quiet Em Saturday #20
Seems to be about her "luxurious" life. betsuni Saturday #32
Maybe she never aspired to a "luxurious life" PatSeg 23 hrs ago #44
She has said in interviews she is working on using the word "no" more in this chapter of life... hlthe2b Saturday #19
Yeah! MorbidButterflyTat Saturday #21
Jesse and Rainbow Push Beringia Saturday #22
What is with these demands for women like Michelle Obama and Taylor Swift JI7 Saturday #24
Living her best life JustAnotherGen Saturday #25
Just as a matter of curiosity, is there some particular reason niyad Saturday #29
I'm confused also. It's feels like tabloid fodder. Ilikepurple Saturday #34
Thank you. Well put. niyad Yesterday #38
"Vehemently.". What a vivid imagination. question everything Saturday #35
Yes, we do. Decency involves not making demands and judgments about niyad Yesterday #36
His wife JustAnotherGen Yesterday #40
I'm sure she had her reasons MustLoveBeagles Saturday #33
Exactly! niyad Yesterday #37
I find it curious too, Jesse Jackson was a cornerstone in justice and equality for Black people Beringia Yesterday #39
Am I the only one who remembers what Jackson said about Obama during his 2008 campaign? milestogo Yesterday #41
Who Are You to Ask That Question? MineralMan 23 hrs ago #43

Quiet Em

(2,829 posts)
7. Perfect answer.
Sat Mar 7, 2026, 06:46 PM
Saturday

I was going to answer the question with, "living in the heads of people who don't seem to understand that she is free to live her own life as she chooses."

question everything

(52,025 posts)
11. But her spouse is still in the public eye and acknowledged Jackson's activism as paving the road to his
Sat Mar 7, 2026, 07:20 PM
Saturday

presidency. She should have done the same by simply sitting there.

Ms. Obama may have hated all eight years in the White House but these years allow her to live in the style that she now chooses. Her portrait in the National Gallery has inspired man young girls. Perhaps still do.

There is nothing wrong with going through life with a sense of responsibility.

Quiet Em

(2,829 posts)
14. She has no obligation to do that.
Sat Mar 7, 2026, 07:26 PM
Saturday

Michelle Obama has stated time and time again that she is not interested in political life at all. She gave eight years. That's it. It's her life.

question everything

(52,025 posts)
16. Acknowledging the man who paved the way for her to be where she is now is not "political life."
Sat Mar 7, 2026, 07:50 PM
Saturday

But, of course, you know that.

Quiet Em

(2,829 posts)
18. She never asked for and didn't want this "political life"
Sat Mar 7, 2026, 07:56 PM
Saturday

"paved the way for her"? That's pretty damn demeaning and insulting. Michelle Obama is an accomplished, successful, and respected woman all on her own.

Ferrets are Cool

(22,824 posts)
27. Wow, telling others in the private sector what they should do in their spare time.
Sat Mar 7, 2026, 10:39 PM
Saturday

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. Not a position to which I would aspire.

quaint

(4,944 posts)
2. Michelle Obama Skips Jesse Jackson's Funeral Despite Facing Backlash for Missing Major Events
Sat Mar 7, 2026, 06:30 PM
Saturday

Last edited Sun Mar 8, 2026, 04:54 PM - Edit history (1)

Adding link to actual article by OK! Magazine celerity
https://okmagazine.com/p/michelle-obama-skips-jesse-jackson-funeral-backlash-missing-barack/
AOL (hah!)


The former first lady responded to backlash during an episode of her "IMO" podcast, admitting: "It took everything in my power to not do the thing that was perceived as right, but do the things that was right for me, that was a hard thing for me to do."

Revealing she was practicing the "art of saying no," Michelle noted, "It's a muscle that you have to build."
And I think we suffered, because it's almost like we started training late in life to build that muscle, right? I am just now starting to build it," she continued at the time.

She added, "I want our daughters, I want the young women out there… I want my girls to start practicing different strategies for saying no."

"After all that I've done in this world, if I am still showing them that I have to keep- I still have to show people that I love my country, that I'm doing the right thing, that I am always setting, going high all the time, even in the face of a lot of hypocrisy and contradiction, all I'm doing is keeping that crazy bar that our mothers and grandmothers set for us," Michelle expressed.

Solly Mack

(96,817 posts)
6. Good on her. Don't play their game.
Sat Mar 7, 2026, 06:43 PM
Saturday
"After all that I've done in this world, if I am still showing them that I have to keep- I still have to show people that I love my country, that I'm doing the right thing, that I am always setting, going high all the time, even in the face of a lot of hypocrisy and contradiction...

question everything

(52,025 posts)
13. She would not have been where she is now were it not for Jackson as her spouse acknowledged.
Sat Mar 7, 2026, 07:23 PM
Saturday

Skittles

(171,052 posts)
28. I understand the power to "say no"
Sat Mar 7, 2026, 10:43 PM
Saturday

but it's not like Jesse Jackson has a lot of funerals

Celerity

(54,188 posts)
42. AOL is just the news aggregator for that article. The article is from OK! Magazine, a British-based weekly magazine that
Sun Mar 8, 2026, 12:25 PM
Yesterday
primarily specialises in royal and celebrity news. That article is from their US edition.

quaint

(4,944 posts)
45. Thank you.
Sun Mar 8, 2026, 04:39 PM
21 hrs ago

For some reason, when I clicked on the OK! link, I coukd not find the story. I did try. Honest.😒

fujiyamasan

(1,593 posts)
8. Maybe she's not really into these events
Sat Mar 7, 2026, 06:49 PM
Saturday

That’s her right as a private citizen. I’m not sure why any of this matters.

9. I thought she would've been there
Sat Mar 7, 2026, 06:57 PM
Saturday

Her best friend growing up was his daughter Santita. Santita was also Maid of Honor when The Obamas got married.

Quiet Em

(2,829 posts)
20. The man, Barack Obama, is quite comfortable with his wife living her life and making her own decisions.
Sat Mar 7, 2026, 08:00 PM
Saturday

You are the one who is seems to bother. She's not your wife. Move on and mind your own business.

betsuni

(28,989 posts)
32. Seems to be about her "luxurious" life.
Sat Mar 7, 2026, 11:09 PM
Saturday

Like Taylor Swift. Desperately taking out the Rich People Bad Both Sides Capitalism Bad Bad rubber stamp.

PatSeg

(53,123 posts)
44. Maybe she never aspired to a "luxurious life"
Sun Mar 8, 2026, 02:37 PM
23 hrs ago

I think she had some different goals than her husband and probably doesn't want to play the part of First Lady everyday for the rest of her life.

hlthe2b

(113,639 posts)
19. She has said in interviews she is working on using the word "no" more in this chapter of life...
Sat Mar 7, 2026, 07:57 PM
Saturday

I am really glad she is doing things for herself after working for the Nation as First Lady all those years. I hate to criticize her and I think I do understand what she is saying.

That said, her missing President Carter's memorial is more understandable to me than the incomparable leader of the civil rights movement- side by side with MLK Jr- the late Jesse Jackson. That one-truthfully surprises me and saddens me. I would have thought of any figure important to her personally, Jesse Jackson would be one and thus a memorial she'd want to attend.

JustAnotherGen

(37,990 posts)
25. Living her best life
Sat Mar 7, 2026, 10:35 PM
Saturday

Her husband has been out of office for 10 years. She's a private citizen.

She's not obligated to do anything anymore.

niyad

(131,705 posts)
29. Just as a matter of curiosity, is there some particular reason
Sat Mar 7, 2026, 10:54 PM
Saturday

that your OP, and all your posts in this thread, demand that Michele Obama answer to your perceived, vehemently-posted notions of her acceptable behaviour? Quite frankly, I am astounded to see the level of outrage expended here. I find it quite disconcerting.

Ilikepurple

(594 posts)
34. I'm confused also. It's feels like tabloid fodder.
Sat Mar 7, 2026, 11:33 PM
Saturday

If it was just the initial post, I’d chalk it up to mere curiosity, but somehow this seems unduly important to the poster. I have no idea why she didn’t show, but she hasn’t struck me as someone who makes decisions lightly. Furthermore, she has asked nothing of me and I will afford her the same courtesy. I’m not even sure what the aim is of this thread. I’m sure none of us know Michelle Obama’s personal situation or views on this matter. The only real options are to defend her or pile on her, so I don’t know what OP wants. I am grateful for Michelle Obama and will not go down this road any further.

question everything

(52,025 posts)
35. "Vehemently.". What a vivid imagination.
Sat Mar 7, 2026, 11:46 PM
Saturday

Just a common decency to honour a man who played an important part in her life. She was President Obama ‘s partner during his campaign and presidency. Wasn’t she? And has often appeared on posts here proposing her as a presidential candidate.

But I suppose we have different perspectives of what decency mean.

Good night. And “Spring forward.”

niyad

(131,705 posts)
36. Yes, we do. Decency involves not making demands and judgments about
Sun Mar 8, 2026, 12:10 AM
Yesterday

things one knows nothing about. Decency involves paying attention when one repeatedly says one has absolutely no interest in running for, or becoming president, no mattter how many times someone on an internet discussion board posts their desire for it. Decency involves knowing when to stop. remdi95

Beringia

(5,479 posts)
39. I find it curious too, Jesse Jackson was a cornerstone in justice and equality for Black people
Sun Mar 8, 2026, 11:25 AM
Yesterday

Why not just go?

I did read that his daughters live together in LA and Obama is opening his Presidential Center at Jackson Park in Chicago on Juneteenth


Obama Presidential Center's opening date set for Juneteenth on South Side

Chicago will get its first full look at the Obama Presidential Center during a full slate of grand-opening celebrations over Juneteenth weekend, officials announced Saturday.

A dedication ceremony will be held June 18 for former President Barack Obama’s namesake museum and campus in Jackson Park, which will open to the public on June 19 after a decade of planning, fundraising, delays and construction. Additional community celebrations will be held on campus June 20-21.

The 44th president, who launched his political career in Chicago and has a home in Kenwood, announced the opening date in a social media video.

“Here on the South Side of Chicago, hope is getting a permanent home. Starting on June 19, you can visit the Obama Presidential Center,” Obama said. “This is not a monument to the past; it is a living destination for people who refuse to accept the status quo. If you feel that way, this is your invitation to join us.”

https://chicago.suntimes.com/chicago/2026/03/07/obama-presidential-center-opening-juneteenth-chicago

milestogo

(22,964 posts)
41. Am I the only one who remembers what Jackson said about Obama during his 2008 campaign?
Sun Mar 8, 2026, 12:24 PM
Yesterday

It was pretty nasty.

Jesse Jackson provoked a maelstrom last week with his off-air comments in relation to Barack Obama that he wanted to ''cut his nuts out'', and that he was ''talking down to black people''.

However it has since transpired Jackson actually used a far more offensive term which until very recently went unreported.

https://www.theguardian.com/world/deadlineusa/2008/jul/17/newonethefullforceofjess

MineralMan

(151,096 posts)
43. Who Are You to Ask That Question?
Sun Mar 8, 2026, 02:28 PM
23 hrs ago

Why do you think she has a responsibility to answer personal questions you ask?

I'm sorry, but her decisions are hers alone to make. As far as I know, she is not required to explain any of her decisions to you, to me, or to anyone else.

Pretty simple, I think, but you continue to ask the same question downthread as well. Why?

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