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TNNurse

(7,472 posts)
Tue Nov 25, 2025, 08:26 AM Nov 25

My father was born 116 years ago today.

He lived in Georgia his whole life, which was not that long. He worked as a meat cutter (butcher) and cook in local restaurants. He died June 26, 1960 before his 51st birthday...and before my 11th. I only remember him in episodes and in stories. One story I learned at my mother's funeral was from a woman who said "You could tell Caswell how many people you wanted to feed, he would tell you how big a roast you needed and how to cook it." I remember the year when his boss came to the house before Christmas with his bonus. This was the owner of the local grocery store where he worked as the butcher. I am pretty sure it was 1959 and I saw the first $100 bill I had ever seen. It was an incredible bonus for the time. Years later, I was able to tell the owner's on how much that story meant to me.

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My father was born 116 years ago today. (Original Post) TNNurse Nov 25 OP
I'm sorry you lost him at such a young age. Tanuki Nov 25 #1
Thank you for those kind words. TNNurse Nov 25 #2
Lovely story.. thanks for sharing mountain grammy Nov 25 #3
Your Dad Clouds Passing Nov 25 #4
"" AllaN01Bear Nov 25 #7
Amazing how strong and resilient people are wolfie001 Nov 25 #5
A wonderful remembrance of your Dad on his birthday. Fla Dem Nov 25 #6
Nice tribute, good memories.. Permanut Nov 25 #8
Today was my dad's birthday as well! bif Nov 25 #9

Tanuki

(16,223 posts)
1. I'm sorry you lost him at such a young age.
Tue Nov 25, 2025, 08:41 AM
Nov 25

He sounds like a loved and respected member of the community who set you on a good path early in life. I believe he continues to watch over you with pride in who you have become and in grateful knowledge that you will hold him in your heart forever. ♥️

TNNurse

(7,472 posts)
2. Thank you for those kind words.
Tue Nov 25, 2025, 08:47 AM
Nov 25

When people have asked me what it is like to lose a parent that young, I always say "It is just what I know". I was the youngest of three, my siblings were 13 and 16. We had a mother who was strong and an extended family who helped her. We were loved.

wolfie001

(6,663 posts)
5. Amazing how strong and resilient people are
Tue Nov 25, 2025, 09:51 AM
Nov 25

In the face of extreme adversity! I was born in 1960. Cheers

Fla Dem

(27,378 posts)
6. A wonderful remembrance of your Dad on his birthday.
Tue Nov 25, 2025, 09:53 AM
Nov 25

My Dad was born in Nov 1912 and lived to 80. I was very fortunate to him in my life for all those years.

bif

(26,528 posts)
9. Today was my dad's birthday as well!
Tue Nov 25, 2025, 12:04 PM
Nov 25

He was born in 1924 and died on Memorial Day six years ago.

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