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JustAnotherGen

(36,749 posts)
Fri Aug 22, 2025, 08:25 AM Friday

"My husband would never live there" - discussion with a magapublican

I was head hunted by Amazon AGAIN yesterday morning. Note - our work can be done anywhere, is very specialized, and in order to get highly skilled people to complete the work - the field of experience is allowing remote and hybrid work. Amazon thinks we are Warehouse Employees. Hence, why these jobs sit open for so long.


I asked one of my Specialists jokingly -

"Hey you want to move to Seattle to work for Amazon? Pays about $220K"

Her response?

"Oh I loved Seattle but there were a lot of homeless people there. My husband would NEVER live there because of their politics."

And she said both things with a big smile.

I was like "Really? Oh wait - that makes sense. I would never live in in TX or SC or someplace like that."

Smile deflated. They live in a Philadelphia suburb in Bucks County.

No one was owned. No one won. Just one for one.

I truly believe if we can't break the minds of the magapublicans and bring down the Regime - we are heading towards Balkanization.



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"My husband would never live there" - discussion with a magapublican (Original Post) JustAnotherGen Friday OP
Geography is powerful. yardwork Friday #1
If you had asked me a few years JustAnotherGen Friday #2
Right. yardwork Friday #3
Agree completely Hey Joe Friday #13
Are we still the United States of America? I wonder more about this every day. littlemissmartypants Friday #4
Yeah, I think we can discard the "United" part PatSeg Friday #9
Please Johnny2X2X Friday #5
Yeah. States like Alabama and South Carolina. ReRe Friday #7
This Yankee experienced the same when living in the South. llmart Friday #8
I visit SC several times a year. Dulcinea Friday #14
Ah, yes. Atlanta is the jewel of the South. ;-) ReRe Saturday #18
I would move just about anywhere for that salary. But if it was Seattle? win/win LeftinOH Friday #6
I think all the cloudy days would get me down. CrispyQ Friday #10
I love Seattle mountain grammy Friday #12
Seattleites en masse Mblaze Friday #11
Many of those homeless are red-state refugees trying to survive. Maru Kitteh Friday #15
It's the creepy callousness JustAnotherGen Friday #16
Ugh. You're so right. Just more "suckers and losers." Maru Kitteh Friday #17

yardwork

(67,778 posts)
1. Geography is powerful.
Fri Aug 22, 2025, 09:07 AM
Friday

It's a powerful connector of people, and a powerful metaphor.

Republicans and their billionaire funders have been trying to divide Americans for a long time. But people living in the same communities came together. Black, brown, gay, straight, trans - people who are neighbors and family keep trying to stay together, see our commonalities, be friends. That's why cities tend to be tolerant, vibrant places.

So now they're dividing us by states and regions. That's easier to do. It's easier to get people to believe a lot of lies about a distant place.

I didn't think it would be possible for the U.S. to divide up on red/blue lines but I've changed my mind. The digital age makes it possible for noncontiguous states to be united. I'm not saying it's a good idea, just possible.

The GDP of California alone is more than that of many nations. Way more than many red states put together. And there's always Canada. Imagine if CA, OR, and WA seceded to join Canada, joined by NY, NJ, MA, CT, RI, and VT. That's a lot of research institutions and corporations.

JustAnotherGen

(36,749 posts)
2. If you had asked me a few years
Fri Aug 22, 2025, 09:12 AM
Friday

ago -

I think I would have agreed. But now? Taxation without representation, a violent thuggish military patrolling cities that don't 'comply' with the Fascists, etc. etc.

Balkanization is close -even if it is digital.

yardwork

(67,778 posts)
3. Right.
Fri Aug 22, 2025, 09:20 AM
Friday

I'm feeling it personally. I love visiting NYC, Chicago, CA, other countries.

I'm supposed to go to an important family celebration at the in laws' in Alabama and I do not want to go. Before Trump this never would have bothered me. Now it does. A lot.

Meanwhile I'm sure my in-laws would have a panic attack at the thought of riding the NYC subway.

And I'm through trying to talk to them. I feel active dislike. Which is sad. I used to love them.

Hey Joe

(192 posts)
13. Agree completely
Fri Aug 22, 2025, 12:00 PM
Friday

I feel the same way about my family in Florida, where I was born. Moved away from there thirty years ago and used to visit every few years.
They are mostly republican Trumpers now so I am not motivated in the least to visit them anymore. It’s really sad as we were much closer way back in the day.
Oh well, plenty of other great places to visit we have not seen.

Johnny2X2X

(23,237 posts)
5. Please
Fri Aug 22, 2025, 09:58 AM
Friday

Seattle is an amazing city, people love living there and it's a tech hub, that's why it's expensive.

You know the places where no one wants to live? Almost all the deep red states are sh*tholes with near 3rd world living conditions for large parts of their populations.

ReRe

(11,813 posts)
7. Yeah. States like Alabama and South Carolina.
Fri Aug 22, 2025, 10:22 AM
Friday

At least this Yankee thought so. Also, it was hard for a real die-hard liberal to find friends down there, except at church. And at home.

llmart

(16,741 posts)
8. This Yankee experienced the same when living in the South.
Fri Aug 22, 2025, 10:54 AM
Friday

It was the 80's and early 90's so things may be different now, but my experience was that the "natives" really only had friends within their particular church or neighborhood, unless they were a neighbor from the North. They were civil and friendly on the surface but not very accepting of yankees. Being a lifelong optimist I didn't believe it when other northerners who had moved there told me this was true, but it certainly turned out to be true. When I left to move to another northern state, I looked back and realized that I had not made even one good friend, and that had never happened to me in my life.

Dulcinea

(8,996 posts)
14. I visit SC several times a year.
Fri Aug 22, 2025, 12:24 PM
Friday

My mother lives in a beach community there. I can tolerate it in small doses, but I would NEVER live there. All those Trumpketeers with MAGA hats & Trump flags on their vehicles...I can't get back to Atlanta fast enough. Atlanta may be in the Deep South, but it's a global city & a lot more progressive than much of the SE USA.

CrispyQ

(40,143 posts)
10. I think all the cloudy days would get me down.
Fri Aug 22, 2025, 11:15 AM
Friday

from Google:

Seattle receives an average of about 150 to 152 sunny days per year, although definitions can vary. While the city has a reputation for being cloudy, Seattle has a higher number of sunny days than cities like Portland, with most of its cloudy days being shorter, overcast periods rather than heavy rainfall.

Denver receives about 252 to 300 days of sunshine per year, though the exact number depends on the definition of "sunny day". While the common claim of 300 days is based on older marketing or a broader definition of a "sunny" day, current data suggests around 69% of days are sunny, which equates to approximately 252 days.


That's three more months of sunshine in Denver than Seattle! Then again, they have an ocean........

Maru Kitteh

(30,509 posts)
15. Many of those homeless are red-state refugees trying to survive.
Fri Aug 22, 2025, 12:38 PM
Friday

They make their way to the PNW because they are less likely to die just from being exposed to the elements alone. They go in order to live. They go to states with more resources and more humanity.

JustAnotherGen

(36,749 posts)
16. It's the creepy callousness
Fri Aug 22, 2025, 12:54 PM
Friday

I have no doubt they are laughing at the Veterans in the DC Encampments getting pushed around.

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