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Xolodno

(7,127 posts)
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 08:28 PM Thursday

$470 Grocery bill at checkout.

Thankfully it wasn't me, it was the older guy in front of me. The clerk asked if he had the app which he said no, she then told him to get it as it would no doubt saved him some money. Which he responded "with a nearly $500 dollar bill, probably wouldn't put too much of a dent into it". His basket was slightly more full as mine, but he was buying more name brand, specialized items, etc.

Then I quipped, "its not like those tariffs are doing it". He started busting up as did the clerk (and I now live in a red area). Mine was $130, would have been less, but I bought some booze. Plus as my wife says "I married a cheap bastard", which I always respond "YES. I. AM." I get the store brand, manager specials, I even compare the price on the bagged cereal vs. box per oz. And even whip out my calculator on my phone to do the math on specials. Saw one other person doing it at the store as well. Every bit counts.

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$470 Grocery bill at checkout. (Original Post) Xolodno Thursday OP
how long do you expect that $130... ret5hd Thursday #1
If that's all I had, about a week and a half. Xolodno Thursday #5
we are about the same... ret5hd Thursday #16
I'm right in between you and the $470 guy soldierant Thursday #21
Was at the grocery store yesterday gab13by13 Thursday #2
You have to wonder how many people she was feeding with that senseandsensibility Thursday #4
Count the pennies, and the dollars will take care of themselves The Blue Flower Thursday #3
When you are at the bottom... Xolodno Thursday #7
Went through college on medicaid. Hornedfrog2000 Thursday #19
everyone needs help sometime on this earth Skittles Thursday #27
My wife hates that I keep an eye on gas prices IbogaProject Thursday #23
curious if you been through hard times Skittles Thursday #28
My Mom was a widow IbogaProject Friday #34
I hear you Skittles Friday #35
Three words.... democratsruletheday Thursday #6
Aldi & Trader Joes are owned by same family IbogaProject Thursday #24
I like TJ but Aldi misses the mark for me Skittles Thursday #29
That is partially correct Lifeafter70 Thursday #32
I have to second this. Aldi is my primary supermarket. Intractable Thursday #30
Have you tried the name brands lately Keepthesoulalive Thursday #8
Graham crakers. Maninacan Thursday #12
Let me guess the store . . . . . no_hypocrisy Thursday #9
LOL! I used to go to their store before Stew Sr. Got... madinmaryland Thursday #14
I've been to the Yonkers Stew Leonards IbogaProject Thursday #25
Vons...California version of Safeway. Xolodno Thursday #15
Discount store Maninacan Thursday #10
Name brands, specialized items - that's exactly were many of the loyalty app savings are. Ms. Toad Thursday #11
Loyalty brands Maninacan Thursday #13
Or you can just sign up for the loyalty cards wherever you shop on the road. Ms. Toad Thursday #31
All of the packaged stuff is outrageously expensive newdeal2 Thursday #17
our method is: shop the perimeter... ret5hd Thursday #18
Yes they've lost me as a custoner newdeal2 Thursday #20
I sometimes wonder about people's shopping habits HuskiesHowls Thursday #22
This cannot hold. Karasu Thursday #26
I was poor for a long time thanks to an illness that disqualified me from health insurance Warpy Thursday #33

Xolodno

(7,127 posts)
5. If that's all I had, about a week and a half.
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 09:02 PM
Thursday

But we have a good sized pantry and a small drop freezer. So it may be yogurt and fruit for the first few days, then pancakes or waffles the next. Dinner, have a big bag of rice and beans, bought some El Pato so I can change the rice into Mexican rice, have plenty of Tapatio and one pack of chicken breasts should last us awhile for Chicken Burritos.

I grew up poor as did my wife, so we know how to make things strech. Sure, I've toured Europe, Egypt, etc. eaten at some really fine places, but once I was unemployed, reverted to poor mode instantly. Won't be unemployed for much longer, I put my self through college (even had family members try to sabotage it), now I'm getting some licensing that will get me a job for the time being while working on my teaching credential.

ret5hd

(21,748 posts)
16. we are about the same...
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 10:22 PM
Thursday

we add in some foraged foods - yucca pods, nopales, lemonberry sumac, apples, beauty berries, plums, wild onion etc when the opportunity arises.

soldierant

(8,864 posts)
21. I'm right in between you and the $470 guy
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 10:47 PM
Thursday

I do as many sales and coupons and markdowns as possible - but since the first thing I have to do is exclude comestibles I am allergic to, that isn't always possible. Sigh.

gab13by13

(29,519 posts)
2. Was at the grocery store yesterday
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 08:32 PM
Thursday

An Amish lady was ahead of me. Her bill was $550.00. She peeled off 6 100 dollar bills.

The Blue Flower

(6,115 posts)
3. Count the pennies, and the dollars will take care of themselves
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 08:33 PM
Thursday

That's how I was raised, and that's how I lived for decades as a single, working mom. Shopping the specials and reading the unit pricing has been second nature to me forever. I didn't just buy the dried beans, I bought the cheapest dried beans. I have no doubt I'll get through the rising mess.

Xolodno

(7,127 posts)
7. When you are at the bottom...
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 09:10 PM
Thursday

...and hard times come back, you know exactly what to do.

I knew of one couple who fell on hard times, wife was hit with cancer, his income wasn't enough to support everything, etc. So they moved into a hotel with weekly rates. Did not get any government services, too proud and worried what others would say about them. Good fucking grief. I went straight to the services, why not? I've been paying into them since I was 16. That's what its there for! Shit happens and you need at times a little help to get you over the hump. No one ever wants to stay on government support, it isn't much, red tape will drive you crazy, etc.

Hornedfrog2000

(805 posts)
19. Went through college on medicaid.
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 10:45 PM
Thursday

I am back in school now, but i have a nursing license and that will pay for what i need until I finish my doctorate. I take pride in overcoming adversity, and being able to relate to my patients.

Skittles

(166,895 posts)
27. everyone needs help sometime on this earth
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 11:15 PM
Thursday

no one should feel shame requesting assistance......seems like it's the "pro-life christian" crowd who love to judge people, make them feel bad about it

IbogaProject

(4,838 posts)
23. My wife hates that I keep an eye on gas prices
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 10:59 PM
Thursday

She feels its a poverty mondset. I just enjoy trying to recall the best price that isnt out of the way. And with groceries working to get basic staples down where the quality isnt large. One ssue is to avoid south eastern american rice as it can have arsnic. Bringing lunch most days and even bringing a meal on a long journey helps.

Skittles

(166,895 posts)
28. curious if you been through hard times
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 11:17 PM
Thursday

my parents were like that - Depression era survivor and WWII survivor - and yes, I picked up a lot of their habits (not all of them)

IbogaProject

(4,838 posts)
34. My Mom was a widow
Fri Aug 22, 2025, 01:35 AM
Friday

My Dad grew up poor born in 1931. He was a fully retired Army Lt Colonel though he took lowest survivor amount, he passed 6 moths after his masters in urban planning. His thesis became the template for the precurser law to the American Disability Act. He took his medical construction experience to create standards for inpatient care for the developementally disabled. My Mom went to grad school in her 50s and worked as a high school librarian to age 74. Been low financially a few times in the aughts but pulled through those times. I just really keep an eye on prices, as a dollar saved is kind of like a tax free dollar earned. In NJ the gas all comes from the refineries, just with different detegergants added.

Skittles

(166,895 posts)
35. I hear you
Fri Aug 22, 2025, 01:39 AM
Friday

I helped with family financial stuff when I was a teenager and my dad was hospitalized for a year - we lived off his savings, and it always stuck with me, wondering what would have happened if there had been no savings

democratsruletheday

(1,485 posts)
6. Three words....
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 09:08 PM
Thursday

Aldi, Aldi ALDI!!!!

We used to shop at Meijer here in West Michigan which is a huge grocery chain and we were at about $240ish per week for 3 of us. My son eats like a tank and so we made the switch to Aldi about 2 years ago on a friends recommendation. We are now at about $175 per week. Just have to bag your own groceries. Love it.

Lifeafter70

(619 posts)
32. That is partially correct
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 11:47 PM
Thursday

Trader Joes started in southern ca. Joe sold it to to one of the Albrecht brothers just not the one who owns Aldi in the states. Joe has passed and so has the Albrecht brother and his son, the grandchildren inherited it in a trust. Trader Joes is still run by corporate offices in Monrovia, California. Trader Joes is not part of Aldi.

Intractable

(1,239 posts)
30. I have to second this. Aldi is my primary supermarket.
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 11:22 PM
Thursday

Been that way for years.

I was there yesterday at my local Aldi in southern Florida.

Prices are up on some items, but not like what I hear going around.

Keepthesoulalive

(1,679 posts)
8. Have you tried the name brands lately
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 09:11 PM
Thursday

The store brands in some instances are far better quality.

Maninacan

(172 posts)
12. Graham crakers.
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 09:20 PM
Thursday

Crav'n brand grahams are 1/2 the price of Nabisco. Woodmans in WI. has store brands that are good. Oatmeal has doubled in just a few years. I had to give up Quaker oats for a store brand 1/2 the price

no_hypocrisy

(52,785 posts)
9. Let me guess the store . . . . .
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 09:13 PM
Thursday

Stew Leonards.

I see that tab on a regular basis and we have an app.

madinmaryland

(65,545 posts)
14. LOL! I used to go to their store before Stew Sr. Got...
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 09:24 PM
Thursday

Busted before skimming off of the food carts they had throughout the store. I think his one of his sons got busted also. Reagan gave Stew Sr a medal of some sort before all that happened.

I’ve been to the Norwalk, Danbury. And Yonkers stores.

The thing that was fucked up is Stew was making a ton of money with the Norwalk and Danbury store that he had no need to skim money.

Xolodno

(7,127 posts)
15. Vons...California version of Safeway.
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 09:38 PM
Thursday

The other store is Raleys, much more expensive. I think their "organic" produce section is bigger than the one that isn't. But if you look at thier add, digital coupons, etc. sometimes it makes more sense to go to them for certain items. Thankfully, the two are just across the street from each other.

Maninacan

(172 posts)
10. Discount store
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 09:16 PM
Thursday

I don't shop at stores where you have to be a member. Usually a clerk will scan discounts from a flyer if you are not in the club.

Ms. Toad

(37,550 posts)
11. Name brands, specialized items - that's exactly were many of the loyalty app savings are.
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 09:19 PM
Thursday

Penny wise and pound foolish. Not only for buying specialty brands - but for not using the loyalty app that would have made them cheaper.

Maninacan

(172 posts)
13. Loyalty brands
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 09:23 PM
Thursday

Loyalty brands don't help when i am on the road. I take a bin of food when i go on a trip.

Ms. Toad

(37,550 posts)
31. Or you can just sign up for the loyalty cards wherever you shop on the road.
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 11:28 PM
Thursday

Most work instantaneously.

You do have to decide whether selling your shopping information in exchange for discounts is worth it . . . but they work almost as well on the road as they do at home.

newdeal2

(3,712 posts)
17. All of the packaged stuff is outrageously expensive
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 10:34 PM
Thursday

Chips, crackers, soda, cookies etc. will add so much to your bill. Those used to be the “cheap” food items but something switched five years ago and they’ve never lowered the price without some sort of special deal.

newdeal2

(3,712 posts)
20. Yes they've lost me as a custoner
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 10:46 PM
Thursday

Good job, Lays and Nabisco.

No way I’m paying $6-10 for a bag/ box that is half empty and has cheaper ingredients than before. I noticed most of what’s in the frozen aisle can no longer even be called ice cream legally because they’ve changed the recipes.

HuskiesHowls

(724 posts)
22. I sometimes wonder about people's shopping habits
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 10:49 PM
Thursday

I drink Pepsi products. One of the local chain stores has 6 packs of 16 ounce bottles for $4.99 most of the time. Sometimes they'll have it at $3.99.
What I find most interesting is that people will pick up those 6 packs of 16 ounce bottles, when 5 feet further down the aisle are 6 packs of 24 ounce bottles for $3.99.

Or, another chain store has jars of Skippy peanut butter on sale--2 40 ounce jars wrapped together for $14.99. Right next to that, they have single 40 ounce jars for $6.99. Even the checkers don't understand it!!!

Warpy

(113,863 posts)
33. I was poor for a long time thanks to an illness that disqualified me from health insurance
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 11:54 PM
Thursday

so I got used to keeping protein at a minimum. Fortunately for me, I like beans and am perfectly happy with beans, bean burgers, loaves, soups, stews, spreads....you get the idea. I'm not back to beans yet. In fact, I'm still able to buy some processed stuff that's bad for me (except at my age, who cares?) and which I've been able to enjoy on my inherited income.

I wonder how many people that poor guy was feeding, I see bills like that when someone comes through from one of the reservations and you know s/he is probably shopping for a bunch of elderly folks. If he was buying tobacco and/or alcohol, that could have jacked the cost up, also. Or if there were half a dozen cans of coffee. Because of his stupid blanket tariff on Mexico, friesh veg are also through the roof.

I don't know what families are expected to do, especially the ones with botttomless pit teenaged boys in the house. You know that arse Johnson is never going to allow a minimum wage hike proposed on the floor of the House, let alone get one passed.

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