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orangecrush

(26,416 posts)
Wed Aug 20, 2025, 02:44 PM Aug 20

Veteran recounts experience disobeying direct order during Vietnam war

Hoping this kind of backbone still exists.


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Veteran recounts experience disobeying direct order during Vietnam war (Original Post) orangecrush Aug 20 OP
Powerful. cachukis Aug 20 #1
Thought so too orangecrush Aug 20 #3
A good and decent man who is a real hero. It's people like hm that are the ones who should get the Nobel Peace Prize. Ping Tung Aug 20 #2
A decent man orangecrush Aug 20 #5
Cannot get the Medal of Honor by definition TnDem Aug 20 #22
I agree. Ping Tung Aug 21 #28
Powerful DiverDave Aug 20 #4
Thanks orangecrush Aug 20 #6
Same InstantGratification Aug 20 #7
Same here. Aristus Aug 20 #11
Very powerful. I hope our military see this or something similar. erronis Aug 20 #8
So what happened after the MP's took him???? Grins Aug 20 #9
He had 17 years in orangecrush Aug 20 #13
A good friend who was in the Corps (ROTC) at Texas A & M and then a Lieutenant in the US Army in Vietnam surfered Aug 20 #10
Thank you orangecrush Aug 20 #14
WOW! That's what being an American patriot is all about. 70sEraVet Aug 20 #12
Kudos to Mr. Avery Uncle Joe Aug 20 #15
Most welcome, Uncle Joe! orangecrush Aug 20 #18
I salute his years of service flying a helicopter to SAVE LIVES. The UCMJ allows a military member to refuse to follow.. usaf-vet Aug 20 #16
I remember this orangecrush Aug 20 #19
"Hugh Thompson The pilot who ended the My Lai Massacre KUSI News San Diego, CA" Uncle Joe Aug 20 #17
Another decent human orangecrush Aug 20 #20
I was lucky with both my Vietnam tours, MarineCombatEngineer Aug 20 #21
Thinking about all the very young men, kids I went to school with, who followed orders & got fucked up for life Attilatheblond Aug 20 #23
Great post orangecrush Aug 20 #24
Bookmarking Bayard Aug 21 #25
Thanks orangecrush Aug 21 #26
Wow pattyloutwo Aug 21 #27
Agree orangecrush Aug 21 #29

Ping Tung

(3,446 posts)
2. A good and decent man who is a real hero. It's people like hm that are the ones who should get the Nobel Peace Prize.
Wed Aug 20, 2025, 03:18 PM
Aug 20

And, the Medal of Honor, and a monument.

 

TnDem

(1,390 posts)
22. Cannot get the Medal of Honor by definition
Wed Aug 20, 2025, 07:19 PM
Aug 20

The MOH is for valor under hostile enemy fire.

He would be a candidate for "The Soldier's Medal", which is bravery when not under enemy fire.

Hugh Thompson, the helicopter pilot who argued with Calley in the field about My Lai was awarded the Soldier's Medal because he was defying his own troops.

DiverDave

(5,161 posts)
4. Powerful
Wed Aug 20, 2025, 03:41 PM
Aug 20

In Basic training we were told we could and should, defy a unlawful order.
Thankfully I never had to do that.

7. Same
Wed Aug 20, 2025, 04:09 PM
Aug 20

I never had to disobey an unlawful order, but I did have to tell my LtC unit commander that I couldn't carry out his verbal order because I had a written order from a MajGen not to carry out that exact task without a written waiver from his office. Very uncomfortable saying no to my CO, who had direct influence over my career, even with the written order of a 3 star backing me up. I was an E-5 with a line number to sew on E-6 that he could have easily manufactured an excuse to take away from me if he had wanted to take it out on me.

Aristus

(70,694 posts)
11. Same here.
Wed Aug 20, 2025, 04:30 PM
Aug 20

When those Iraq War soldiers caught on camera abusing Iraqi prisoners said that were just following orders, I just about came unglued. We had an entire afternoon of lectures in Basic Training about the importance of disobeying illegal orders. When the shouting, screaming, frightening drill sergeants who drum obedience into you tell of the ethical and moral importance of disobeying illegal orders, you listen.

erronis

(21,144 posts)
8. Very powerful. I hope our military see this or something similar.
Wed Aug 20, 2025, 04:20 PM
Aug 20

I fear that our war machine is also so commercialized by murderous corporations that hire the least conscientious, this type of countermanding of orders won't happen.

orangecrush

(26,416 posts)
13. He had 17 years in
Wed Aug 20, 2025, 05:12 PM
Aug 20

And flew air ambulance after that, so I'm assuming it turned out favorably for him.

surfered

(8,812 posts)
10. A good friend who was in the Corps (ROTC) at Texas A & M and then a Lieutenant in the US Army in Vietnam
Wed Aug 20, 2025, 04:27 PM
Aug 20

He was ordered to go into Cambodia, armed with a camera and with a platoon of ARVN (So Vietnamese soldiers). It was an intelligence mission.

He refused the order as he was knowledgeable enough to know it was illegal. At that time, the US Army was not allowed to operate in Cambodia until Nixon later ordered an incursion.

In effect, it ended his Army career, but by then he had seen enough and no longer wanted one.

It’s bothersome that such an order would be given by a superior officer, but with Trump’s interviewing Generals for promotion and demanding their personal loyalty, it increases the chances of it happening as most recruits, myself included, and junior officers wouldn’t know which orders or legal and which ones aren’t.

70sEraVet

(4,804 posts)
12. WOW! That's what being an American patriot is all about.
Wed Aug 20, 2025, 05:00 PM
Aug 20

And I believe there are plenty of decent young men and women in the military today. They are not going to wage war against American civilians in DC, LA, or anywhere else -- no matter how many orders come down from trump and Hegseth!

usaf-vet

(7,662 posts)
16. I salute his years of service flying a helicopter to SAVE LIVES. The UCMJ allows a military member to refuse to follow..
Wed Aug 20, 2025, 05:31 PM
Aug 20

... an illegal order.

Here is a short version of what the UCMJ
Disobeying an Illegal Order under the UCMJ

The Uniform Code of Military Justice (UCMJ) requires service members to obey lawful orders. However, it also makes clear that unlawful orders are not binding and must be disobeyed.

Relevant UCMJ Articles

Article 90: Willfully Disobeying a Superior Commissioned Officer – applies only to lawful commands.

Article 91: Insubordinate Conduct Toward Warrant Officer, NCO, or Petty Officer – limited to lawful orders.

Article 92: Failure to Obey Order or Regulation – covers lawful general orders, regulations, or directives.

What Makes an Order Illegal?
An order is unlawful if it:

Requires the commission of a crime (such as torture, targeting civilians, falsifying records).

Is beyond the authority of the person giving it.

Is manifestly contrary to the Constitution, U.S. law, or the laws of war.

Duty to Disobey
Military law and precedent make clear that service members have both a legal and moral duty to disobey unlawful orders. Carrying out such orders can result in criminal liability for the subordinate. Refusing a truly unlawful order does not violate Articles 90–92.

Historical Example
In United States v. Calley (My Lai Massacre, Vietnam War), Lieutenant William Calley argued he was following orders to kill civilians. The court rejected this defense: orders to commit war crimes are manifestly illegal and must be disobeyed.

Summary
The UCMJ requires obedience to lawful orders. If an order is illegal, a service member has a duty to disobey it. Obedience to such orders is not a defense and may result in prosecution.

MarineCombatEngineer

(15,877 posts)
21. I was lucky with both my Vietnam tours,
Wed Aug 20, 2025, 07:12 PM
Aug 20

both times, our unit had very level headed LT's who would have refused an illegal order, so I, we, never had to deal with such a situation, but KUDOS to this Veteran and all who refused and suffered the consequences for their refusal, Hand Salute.

Attilatheblond

(7,012 posts)
23. Thinking about all the very young men, kids I went to school with, who followed orders & got fucked up for life
Wed Aug 20, 2025, 07:57 PM
Aug 20

How many had to convince themselves that it was OK to follow illegal orders just to get thru every day for the rest of their lives? How many had to grow so very hard over the wounds in their souls just to pretend they were still alive and that it was OK? It was 'duty'?

How much damage did it do to our beloved nation, our beloved neighbors, our brothers, our fathers, when those very young men had to change from sweet boys with promise into hard men with hate?

There are so many reasons I never attended a school reunion. I knew the empty chairs would eat me alive. But I think deep inside, I knew seeing faces of the ones who came home with destroyed minds and empty hearts would be even more painful.

Where did you serve?
Thank you for your service.
Glad you made it home.
Let me buy you a beer.
Lets go vote for the pols who feed at the corporate trough and show those libs how tough we are.


Alcohol, drugs, hate, bad choices, denial just to survive to see the next sunrise. Loneliness that just makes hearts even harder.

It didn't have to happen. But profits for the MIC! Money for the stockholders! Rah rah, let's trick the next generation into feeding the MIC with their souls and lives.

It did not have to fucking happen.


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